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Thread: Flirting is NOT Seduction.

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    Default Flirting is NOT Seduction.

    Some people tend to believe that flirting is seducing someone. By that I mean, they get to meet the person, they start flirting together and the guy goes in and starts seducing the ladie. Suddenly she backs off and the guy is left to wonder why she did.

    Guys, flirting is being playful, cocky and funny, decoding body language, decoding IoI's.

    While Seduction is when you know she's into you and you go in for the kill, L-close or relationships.

    ''Players'' (How our society see's it) are people who seduce women and ditch them later, leaving the girl hurt or mad.

    REAL ''Players'' (Us) should flirt with the girls but make it clear that you are seeing other girls, make it clear that you are a flirty guy. So they get their thoughts and emotions straight with you. You can still do things with those girls but you arn't pushing it. That's how I do.

    Something else, people also believe Kissing is a way to show love. Basicly Kissing could be considered a major IoI, why?

    Parents who've had a rough journey for 20 years and don't get too much time to each other. They don't kiss, hug or what not. When they kiss, you'll know its a Love kiss. Compared to us who kiss all the times, in clubs, cars, street infront of everyone. Real ''Seduction'' or Love to me should be more reserved to be considered an actual relationship.

    Keep that in mind, happy flirting.
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    Default Re: Flirting is NOT Seduction.

    Exactly!

    Flirting is like the "little kid" stage. Teasing/bantering... having playful interactions that increase curiosity & build attraction.

    Seduction is the "MAN" stage.
    You have to be confident, cool, sexy.

    This comes after the attraction is built & you've gained comfort & established some amount of rapport.

    Nice post my friend!


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    Default Re: Flirting is NOT Seduction.

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Exactly!

    Flirting is like the "little kid" stage. Teasing/bantering... having playful interactions that increase curiosity & build attraction.

    Seduction is the "MAN" stage.
    You have to be confident, cool, sexy.

    This comes after the attraction is built & you've gained comfort & established some amount of rapport.

    Nice post my friend!

    I'll even add that in any stage, you need confidence. Flirting can be offending someone at first and quickly turning it around. You need guts and confidence for that.

    I had this girl who though her hair were orange, I actually did offend her slightly with my comment, turned it around and now she's following me around.

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    Default Re: Flirting is NOT Seduction.

    Yeah I agree thats super important thanks for the post!

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    Default Re: Flirting is NOT Seduction.

    Flirting is a step, seduction is the process.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Flirting is NOT Seduction.

    ablindman9. You are a much welcomed addition to this forum. Good post.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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