Met this girl accidentally online, hit it off, and have been talking for about a month.
We've had multiple phone conversations (5mins up to one for 90 mins on V-Day) and have opened up to one another quite bit. Conversation and laughter always flow. I get the "I've been thinking about you all day" texts here and there.
I recently found out she was in a long (5+ years) abusive relationship that she recently got out of.
I figured she had thick walls and her guard up but has told me multiple times how much she likes me, has a crush on me, etc.
Also, she said she is very shy and tends to avoid situations that involve meeting new people. She always tells me how confident I come off and says that she doesn't know if she could ever meet up because I'm too confident and good looking and that intimidates her.
But again, when we talk all of that goes away. I don't want to be pushy and have told her I would never want her to feel uncomfortable when we meet but I think there is something very special about this girl that I want to get to know. (I've told her that)
Also to note, She lives about an hour away, doesn't have too many friends/stays in a lot, and I get the feeling she is a glass "half empty" girl.
She says that every guy she talks to she winds up getting content and it never goes beyond "text buddies" She has said many times that I'm the only guy she has talked to that she really wants to meet and that if we didn't she would regret it completely.
We are supposed to meet tomorrow night and she is driving to see me.
I am so very lost at what to think and do, maybe I am not what she is used to and she doesn't know how to handle or react?