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    Hi Guys...I really believe in you guys helping me solve this problem so I'm going to give full details. I met a girl on sunday at my friend's birthday dinner. Very friendly and polite. We played truth or dare and i was dared to kiss her. I did and we cuddled through the night to the next morning. My friend asked me to come to movies...she was there and shy to say "hello" so i took the bold step and said "hi" first. We took pics and she was fun. Then she said she was going to get my number from my friend cos she thought i was going back home that night. Meanwhile she had not gone back to her house since sunday and was at my friend's place. First night at my friend's place was cool and she really wanted my attention but the next afternoon i was laying on the bed and she came to sleep near me. Then i asked for her teddy and she said why, told her cos i wanted to cuddle and she said she was using it and laughed. So, i wrapped my arm around her, she didn't say anything. Then, she said i should move back a bit, i did and took my arm off her. I noticed she changed after that but we still talked. That night wasn't too good and she told my friends i snore after getting up very early in the morning. But she's so different, she's the decent christian type that's so hard to get. I got her number before leaving my friends place and she asked me to text her so she can have mine. I did that when i got home but she replied late and i was surprised she didn't ask and assumed i was the one that texted. I didn't know what to say cos i saw her earlier and didn't reply until after 3 hours...i said "Was at the library, what's up?" I'm with my friend now and he's telling me of how guys have been trying to get her and she has only had one bf before. GUYSSS have any girl every made you feel miserable when she doesn't respond to your text. I'm ready to change for her and she still hasn't replied. But my friend sent her a text here and she replied him already. WHAT DID I DO WRONG?? I might just dieee if i lose her...cos i've been careful with things. Help me guys....so many guys that are waaayyyy better than me have tried and didn't get her now I'm next ((

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    Default Re: A Christian Girl

    I'll give you two things. One is a fish. And the other is going to teach you to fish for yourself. You should already know that by taking the fish you'll only be back here for another. So if you want her you have to get serious about these skills and understand that they take time. A lot of time, to master.

    Fish: Text her "Omg I think I saw your twin." This should get a response from her because it's intriguing. Push your way to a meet up and escalate when you meet.

    Teaching you to fish: You seriously just said you'd change for her? That is the absolute WRONG mindset...period. Women are generally attracted to men who get her to want to change for them. Showing her you are willing to change for her is not only bad, but there is no grounds for it. You haven't even kissed her yet let alone sleep with her. You have to change your perception of this girl. She is too high on the pedestal and really hasn't done anything different than a lot of women do. Remember, all girls sh1t.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Okay man, but I've kissed her once. BTW, I'm planning on going to my friend's place tonight just to try and change things. But on my best behaviour, i won't try to talk to her but if she talks to me I'll reply. What do you think?

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    Default Re: A Christian Girl

    Well kissing is definitely a good step. Less likely to be in the friend zone.

    As for not talking to her you have to calibrate. Which basically means you have to be willing to change your strategy the more you understand the situation and her as a person. If you ignore her and she doesn't respond then you have to initiate.

    I think the best strategy, because she is conservative, is that you approach her IMMEDIATELY. Say hi and other courtesies THEN ignore her. You have now opened her and are ignoring her. She is more likely to approach YOU after that rather than if you ignored her right from the door. I am very confident about this because I love push/pull lol.
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    Default Re: A Christian Girl

    Whoa you're right...I opened her, i ignored her and she approached but she's ignoring me now lol. But I can't say hi again cos she hasn't replied...isn't that getting desperate. What i do is if she doesn't i reply i dont text back or talk back until she replies and if she still doesn't reply i give her some time for her mind to clear up and fire back....

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    Wait I'm confused. Will she be at your friends place? I thought she was.

    If you mean texting then you need to pick something out in your day that reminded you of her. A classic one is the "Omg I think I saw your twin." But there is countless things. All you need is one simple one that you can justify that it reminded you of her and you can text her. Simply saying "Hi" may be too weak right now.
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    She's leaving my friend's place tomorrow and i just changed my mind. I think if i go there i might just show her that I'm trying too much. Yeah she love "Usher" and her birthday is in 10 days. I don't think i can text her tomorrow, i might have to wait for her to text me cos I'm still expecting a reply from her. And if she doesn't text me then i might have to wait for sometime before i text her or surprise her on her birthday....would you this? BTW thanks for your help.

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    NO I WOULD NOT!! Lol. So many guys are soooo worried about looking needy that they miss opportunities right in front of them. Don't worry about looking needy. Worry about having fun.

    You completely cancelled on your friend and are not going to text her to avoid looking needy? Are you going to miss a concert or a road trip in order to not look needy also? Trust me, even if you might look needy at first you can quickly flip it around once you get into a conversation with her. If you don't go to your friends you end up with you and just your hand tonight.

    It's no different then the guys that go into nightclubs, lean up against the wall and wait for women to approach them. It's pathetic because NO ONE approaches them. You are not one of these losers. There is a concept called ACTIVE DISINTEREST in PUA. It means that you CAN approach, which may betray your interest initially, but that you do/say things to the contrary which confuses her about whether you are interested in her or not. That's what this is all about!! To be able to engage in a conversation with her and not wait around for her to make the first move. We are men after all.

    The real game is when you are in her face and not waiting around for her to make a move. Alpha's do what they want without caring about what she thinks about it.
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    Default Re: A Christian Girl

    Okay man, I'll do something but not tomorrow...or might even go to her church lol

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    Default Re: A Christian Girl

    I second everything batman said. really good solid stuff. the only thing i would add is, there's just too much thinking going on right now. You are clearly excited about this chick, but you're losing focused because you want her so bad. Just calm down, breathe, and execute. Have your life, don't change yourself, or plans because of her. engage her via text, meet up with her, escalate...
    you'll be fine bro.
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