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    Default Huge opportunity... best way to execute?

    I may have an opening to to re-ignite something with a HB 8 that fizzled out a few weeks ago. I've been freezing her out from texts, but she hasn't sent me any either for almost 2 weeks. She is a huge college B-ball fan for the school she went to and I noticed they are playing this weekend about 2 hours away from her... AND I happen to have a college buddy who works at the area where the game is being played. Of course, it made me think of here and I checked with my friend... he can hook me up 2 great seats for the game.

    Now, I have a couple ideas of what to say trying make it sound like it made me think of her but also trying not to come off like a stalker. I am leaning towards calling her for the invite but worry it will go to VM. Am I better off sending a text? Do I leave a voicemail or just let her see a missed call? I'm really just looking for the best strategy to ensure she accepts.

    One thought is call... no voicemail... then right away text something "Give me a call... need to know something by xxx time..."

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    Default Re: Huge opportunity... best way to execute?

    Inviting her to this event betrays that you have put more importance on her. This could be good or bad depending on a few things.

    How far did you guys get? Just chatting or more?

    Do you know what she wants? Has she been open about a possible relationship with you or just casual?
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    Default Re: Huge opportunity... best way to execute?

    I don't hate the idea. Especially if you haven't talked to her in 2 weeks, you haven't really overdone it.

    Call then backup text? May work
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    Default Re: Huge opportunity... best way to execute?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Inviting her to this event betrays that you have put more importance on her. This could be good or bad depending on a few things.

    How far did you guys get? Just chatting or more?
    Very, very good point, I had not thought of that. Mostly chatting, one date that seemed to go real well then I f-ed it up with bad texting a few days later (there's a thread about that around here somewhere, hah)

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    I don't hate the idea. Especially if you haven't talked to her in 2 weeks, you haven't really overdone it.

    Call then backup text? May work
    Yeah, I was thinking of making a big all or nothing splash, since I have for the most part already moved on... kind of a nothing to lose mentality.

    Batman had a great point though, I may wait it out longer as I initially and see if I want to try again in a few weeks or even a month.

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    Default Re: Huge opportunity... best way to execute?

    Well it's still not a total loss. You may lose some cool points at first for inviting her to an event when you haven't talked. But if it led back to your place then wouldn't it be worth it?

    If you decide to invite her it's important to get her into a good emotional state first. Get her laughing and enjoying your convo THEN shoot an invite. Almost like she earned it.

    Ex: "Wow I haven't laughed like that in awhile. Ya know...I really like our convos. I have these tickets to a game I would really like you to join me in."

    A pimp says that he's happy when his hoes are laughing because he knows their sleeping.
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