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    shadowbreed is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Are you a player or something?

    So I got asked that question by a girl last night during an extremely flirty / sexual texting conversation with an HB7.5 last night. In the interest of trying to tweak my game for the best, I thought I'd snag some opinions.

    She said it jokingly, and hasn't seemed to cool off towards me at all, but she did ask it - and later asked me to come over. I figured that could mean one of two things - I was coming off a little strong and she thought I was being less than genuine at that moment, or she thought I was smooth and assumed I was successful with women - but maybe a little morally ambiguous (which doesn't really bother me.. haha).

    I just took the conversation another direction, and she didn't seem to care or be hung up on it, but I was wondering if that statement meant I needed to tweak my game onto a slightly slower slope because I was pushing coming on too strong, or if that was a positive response and I need not worry. Thoughts? Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Are you a player or something?

    Being called a player usually means you are going into the seduction phase a little too fast. But no biggie.

    If you want to avoid that then you should incorporate qualification into your game. I wrote a post on it here. Take a look. Maybe it'll help.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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