I'm just going to tell you ahead of time that if you stay in this long enough, eventually you are going to find a girl that is going to change things for you. You're going to meet her and you won't want to game anyone else. It's not obsession, it's infatuation. It's love, people. Almost every expert I've talked to has met girlfriends, their fiancé, even their wife through pickup. That's by far the best thing about pickup. You can have a kickass time when you're single and when you finally meet the girl of you dreams you can snatch her up.