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    Default Avoid ONEITIS- Think abundance

    Just a quick word for everyone in this game. Avoid oneitis. Be a man. No matter how tight your game is, sometimes you won't get the girl, and that's okay. NO WOMAN is worth getting obsessed over.

    If you want to be successful, think abundance. Right now, I bet any of you guys can approach at least 10 girls in a day. I am also willing to bet that you could sleep with at least 1 of those 10 girls if you wanted to. And I can also guarantee that doing that will be a hell of a lot more fun that trying to rescue this ONE AWESOME GIRL who was never that into you in the first place.

    So moral of the story, if you want to play to be good with women work on your inner game, confidence, and approaching and having fun with women.

    I have had pretty good success in the last few months following this theory. I practice strong inner game, I am confident in what I do. But hey, guess what? I still get rejected. I still get one word texts, and I still get ignored at times. It's okay, brush it off and on to the next one!

    Cheers guys.

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    Default Re: Avoid ONEITIS- Think abundance

    Good advice but hard to put into practice. Especially if you realy have a thing for that one.

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    Default Re: Avoid ONEITIS- Think abundance

    It's all mental. You can trick your brain.

    If she is your target, and you have bad one-itis then think of gaming other girls as perfecting your skills to seduce her. Force yourself to do it, good things will happen.

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    Default Re: Avoid ONEITIS- Think abundance

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    It's all mental. You can trick your brain.

    If she is your target, and you have bad one-itis then think of gaming other girls as perfecting your skills to seduce her. Force yourself to do it, good things will happen.
    Yeah. That's exactly why I am registered here.

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    Default Re: Avoid ONEITIS- Think abundance

    thanks needed this lift. Lol having oneitis has been getting in my head--- been trying to find this BIG City mentality inside me.

    Too many girls in this world to try and stress over one``

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    Default Re: Avoid ONEITIS- Think abundance

    Quote Originally Posted by bookofheelai View Post
    thanks needed this lift. Lol having oneitis has been getting in my head--- been trying to find this BIG City mentality inside me.

    Too many girls in this world to try and stress over one``
    Dude if you want to learn all about controlling your brain read The New Mood Therapy by Dr. David Burns. Do not be scared when you read the cover. It is a book written for people with depression. However, if you understand depression you will understand why it is a good book to read on inner game.

    People with depression have delusional thoughts about themselves and their reality. The first 5 or 6 chapters deals with different aspects of cognitive therapy. Basically he teaches you to recognize thoughts you are having and defeat them logically. This is essential for working on inner game. You can get the book for under 5 bucks on amazon.

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    Default Re: Avoid ONEITIS- Think abundance

    If there is one that I have discovered since I have started picking up women is this:
    There is always a girl that you see and think is untouchable and then there is the belief that if you were to get this particular girl you are never going to give her up.
    Reality is that once you do put your skills to work and you obtain her, you soon see that she was not all that you built her up to be. One-itis is all in the head because once you obtain this girl, it won't be long til you want someone else, somebody else.
    For every woman out there, no matter how attractive she is, there is always a guy who is tired of sleeping with her. FACT
    LMC

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    Default Re: Avoid ONEITIS- Think abundance

    Oh oneitis, the pitfall of so many men, me included several times haha, the best therapy for this is of course to just move on, to repeat the cliche phrase "there's a lot of fish in the sea", remember sharks eat all kinds of fish, not just one , and who knows, maybe once the "one" sees you move on, she'll long for your company since you made yourself unattainable in a way

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    Default Re: Avoid ONEITIS- Think abundance

    Shit I got a bout of oneitus right now, been with a girl i know i have no future with for 3 months. Time to break it off, this thread reminded me whats up

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    Default Re: Avoid ONEITIS- Think abundance

    I get oneitis A LOT I just force myself to meet new women and when the new pretty girl is in front of me I can forget the main target.
    Also this is great for making the main target see that you are pre-selected and draw her into your game.
    .-* WWWEEE *-.


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