I've had troubles, still do, approaching and talking to girls. For this nights field report, I went out to a bar where there's Dance music being played. Nobody was dancing and I just wanted to have a good time so I started dancing by myself. After a few songs people start to get on the dance floor and I get off to cool down a bit. I try looking for a girl to dance with and I am unsuccessful so I dance by myself. I notice my luck isn't so good so I move onto the next bar.
When I get inside the next one, I notice how crowded it is so I just pull up to the bar and just sit there for a bit. While I'm sitting there, 3 girls (2 7.5 and 1 4) come up to me and ask me for ideas on what type of drink to get. I help them and I try to conversate with them, but after we had our shot they turn their backs to me and ignore me. After that I go back to my original bar and again I try looking for a girl to dance with, and again I'm unsuccessful. Every girl I tried to dance with ignored me like I had an std or something.
In all, when I first got to both I noticed that I was getting a few looks but that's all it was. Can somebody please tell me what I'm doing wrong, or better yet, come with me to a club and help me point out what I'm doing wrong?