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  1. #1
    Slyfox is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What am I doing wrong?

    I've had troubles, still do, approaching and talking to girls. For this nights field report, I went out to a bar where there's Dance music being played. Nobody was dancing and I just wanted to have a good time so I started dancing by myself. After a few songs people start to get on the dance floor and I get off to cool down a bit. I try looking for a girl to dance with and I am unsuccessful so I dance by myself. I notice my luck isn't so good so I move onto the next bar.

    When I get inside the next one, I notice how crowded it is so I just pull up to the bar and just sit there for a bit. While I'm sitting there, 3 girls (2 7.5 and 1 4) come up to me and ask me for ideas on what type of drink to get. I help them and I try to conversate with them, but after we had our shot they turn their backs to me and ignore me. After that I go back to my original bar and again I try looking for a girl to dance with, and again I'm unsuccessful. Every girl I tried to dance with ignored me like I had an std or something.

    In all, when I first got to both I noticed that I was getting a few looks but that's all it was. Can somebody please tell me what I'm doing wrong, or better yet, come with me to a club and help me point out what I'm doing wrong?

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    daltonbrayall is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: What am I doing wrong?

    where are you located? plus thirty char.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    costarica is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: What am I doing wrong?

    1. You don't have inner game, so stop going to bars and dancing by yourself on an empty dancefloor. Do that shit at home in front of your PS3.

    2. If 3 girls come up to you in a bar and ask about drinks, you were being hit on and lost a set that was handed to you by an angel. the angel is laughing right now, so learn to laugh back.

    3. kick yourself in the balls for me and stop sounding weak.

    4. SPEND YOUR TIME OPENING SETS. Listen, and take this to heart. By the time you shower, get ready, and get downtown on a club night, you've invested time and you look good and feel good. USE THAT TIME to open sets over and over and over and over. Then read your foundation book (you are studying a book every day for at least an hour right????), determine what was good or bad and then go do it over and over and over. Stop wasting time dancing by yourself until you have so much charisma and game and abundance that you just don't give a shit.

    5. Get a wingman to de-pussy-fy each other. Go out, take turns doing approaches, do some together, co-analyze, etc.


    There is an order in which you do things. And the first order of business is doing about a thousand approaches no matter if you are in a club, bus station, hospital, or cemetery.

    If you are unsuccessful finding a girl to dance with, it's because you shouldn't be looking for one in the first place. Use your time to practice approaches until that no longer becomes an issue.
    - CR


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