Re: HBA hitting on me and investing in me. im clueless lol HELP please
You could try focusing on her negatives. Either something physical or shape one of her behaviors as something that's a turn off for you. Remind yourself that all girls shit and no one is perfect.
One trick I use quite often is that I'll try to imagine how they looked as a child. Braces? Glasses? Messy hair? Bad clothes? Then I start to see them as dorky and almost like a little sister. This usually takes them off the pedestal for me.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."