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    Unhappy feeling unappreciated by GF

    hi
    I've been dating my gf for about 2 months, lately i get the feeling I give a lot more in the relationship the she is.
    we had an issue like that before and we talked and it was solved.
    Now i feel kind of the same way she expects me to pamper her and help with stuff, but she dose't put me in the same place.


    should I give her a chance and a talk, or is it too late and I should cut my losses?

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    Default Re: feeling unappreciated by GF

    My advice would be make her appreciate you. Stop putting so much into the relationship, and in turn she will put more in because she sees you not being as interested. what you have to remember is it's a game, try to find a balance in the situation and make her want you as much as you want her. And after that if she's still dead set on having you put in all the work, kick her to the curb and be adamant about what you want and that it's not working. more than likely she'll be back.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: feeling unappreciated by GF

    Definitely got to put yourself first. If she whines about you not being romantic, passionate, etc because you stopped, you have to instantly reshape it that SHE has stopped being affection. Don't fall for the trap of a woman manipulating you so she can use you without reciprocating. You have to value yourself before others do.
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    Default Re: feeling unappreciated by GF

    the sad fact is that the person who cares less wins the relationship. And there is always someone who cares less. The trick is finding someone who cares a little more than you.

    Truth o' the matter is, if you care about our relationship...you have to stop caring.

    I'll wait while you collect the exploded pieces of your mind from around the area.
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