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    Default What to expect after a break up...

    Well I broke up with my long term ex back in Sept because she was a whore... (yes I'm clearly over it) haha!

    It was odd, after the break up the only thing I wanted to do was to start gaming, as fast and furious as possible. I literally went out and banged anything I could get my hands on. Now at the time I was happy with this but on reflection I realise that it was more likely a coping mechanism for getting over my ex. 6 months and 13 girls later I find myself having a change in attitude.

    Now time has passed, more and more I find myself passing on sure things or ignoring the plastic brigade of big tits and no personality that were a huge comfort a matter of weeks ago. I came to the startling realisation that I want more than that now... It would seem I actually want a relationship.

    The lesson in this is that I have come to realise that you do need to be in the right frame of mind... i.e. healthy, to have a relationship. I did actually try to start something semi-serious a few months back with a girl. I am very glad it didn't work as it would have died on its ass.

    Just thought I'd share my musings. Now less of this Bridgett Jones shit!

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    Default Re: What to expect after a break up...

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    Well I broke up with my long term ex back in Sept because she was a whore... (yes I'm clearly over it) haha!
    While I admire your "opening up," one thing that I believe is that one sign of a person's ability to move forward into a mature, healthy, relationship is to refrain from talking bad about their previous ones. Even if they are the truth.

    Just because two people come together out of lust, create a tremendous hatred for whatever they decide to do to each other, I think there has to be a level of respect to life (and "the game") with the attitude of "well, it is what it is. that's part of humanity. we both made mistakes, and I'm moving on and i wish them the best of luck."

    Developing a positive outlook on bad situations (and people who treat us poorly) is a practice trait, not an innate one.
    - CR

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    Default Re: What to expect after a break up...

    I know the whore comment was a joke, we still talk. We're actually fairly good friends now.


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