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    mokalius is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl didn't answer my call after hooking up

    Hey there!
    So long story short, i invited a bunch of people to my apartment for a party on the 16th and there was this specific girl I wanted to get with (let's call her "D"), she goes to my same college and we've talked before she's really cute, and i kinda thought she was into me and she was at the party too.
    So party is going great, but then my ex ("K") showed up.

    Since I was kinda drunk I just started dancing with her no problem and then she just gave me a peck.
    After that, we really didnt do anything else (i didnt really feel like doing anything with her) and she had to leave, i didnt care at all. Now, D was also there and we started flirting intensely. We made out and it seemed that we were going all the way but since I have a problem with my bedroom doors (they wont lock) she decided to go home, and gave me her number.
    Anyway, I was really happy the next day, I really wanted to start things up with D, I'd definitely want her as my gf.

    Thing is, i texted her the next day asking her if she had left a jacket at my place and everything seemed good, (it was just that text) after that i called her up a on monday night to get together, but she didnt answer. I called her once at 8 then another time at 10.30, no
    Answer. I havent called her since, havent seen her since, but I'm still thinking about her.

    I'm wondering what went wrong and (if possible) what I could do to help the situation. Cause D is seriously a great catch that I really dont want to lose.
    Thanks for reading!

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    Default Re: Girl didn't answer my call after hooking up

    Nothing went wrong. It's in your head.

    From the scenario:

    1. She was at least into you for the night, therefore she is still fair game. << There was no blowout, so don't let her lack of response go to your head.

    2. You are failing to create a high level of attraction (she's a house party girl that likes to make out, so you have to build harder). << Figure out a way to elicit a response and build attraction.

    3. Don't leave a bunch of messages (and seem all chode-y). Leave 1 voice message (I have a jacket that some naked stripper left. was that you?), then text her and say something like, "dear creepy girl who can't call back. if this is your jacket, i'm eating it and you'll never see it again. also, i'm not making out with you anymore unless you are willing to bake me a pie. apple and cinnamon. goodbye forever."

    4. If no response from voice or text, unless you happen to run into her again, chalk it up to a horny 1-night-almost-stand and move on.

    5. Call K and use that to get over your current infatuation with D and then move on.

    6. In any event, call K and keep her warm on the back burner
    - CR

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    Default Re: Girl didn't answer my call after hooking up

    Thanks for the fast response! I'll try that. Hopefully everything will work out. Thanks again!


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