Re: frustrated from being dumped
Well in my opinion comfort is just that "get to know each other" stage. Talking about interests, childhoods, aspirations, plans, quirks. Just really peeling back the layers so she gets to know you.
With rapport, it's on the same lines as comfort, but runs deeper. This is when you're upset, she is also upset with you. That if she's mad then so are you. (Or at least emotionally affected.) Pride and ego do not exist. If she is upset at something you said/did she will express that to you and so will you. You are sympathetic towards each other and realize you have to take care of each other and not just yourselves. Why would a woman walk out on you with pride and ego if you get her used to just whining to you by building rapport lol? At least that's my opinion.
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