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    markrichards is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default how to deal with bad behaviour

    How should you react to a girl who takes ages to text back (i.e. days), leaves plans until the last minute, puts plans with friends over plans with you?

    Should I just 'next' these girls?

    The Rules say you should never let a girl let on that you are annoyed about these things but to me, putting up with this bad behaviour is lowering my standards.

    How should you deal with these things?

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    Default Re: how to deal with bad behaviour

    Anyone? Grateful for some replies. Thanks

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    Default Re: how to deal with bad behaviour

    Sounds like she's just using you for validation, she just texts you/makes plans to boost her self esteem. Next time she texts you don't respond right away, take a couple hours then give it a one word response. If she dosen't get the validation she wants she'll try harder and harder to get it.

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    Default Re: how to deal with bad behaviour

    Its not 'dont let a girl is know you are annoyed.' Its 'dont become a wuss because your mad.'

    So for example, she breaks plans with u.

    WRONG WAY
    HB: Sorry i have to break plans etc
    AFC: You always do this? Your such a tease. You suck! Dont ever call me again!

    BETTER WAY
    HB: I have to break plans...etc
    PUA: Again? Well i guess your dropping to last on the list.
    HB: What list?
    Pua: Girls who want me list. Too bad. I thought we could be cool friends. Well Heather is free... i'll call her then

    This reponse is condensed. You DO NOT want to write that all in one text. Draw her out by using each line seperately.

    Better way shows a few things.
    1. Her cancelling is not cool
    2. She will lose her 'spot' in line (penalty)
    3. You have a life without her
    4. Setbacks dont affect you
    5. If she wants your validation, she has to fight other girls

    Of course, getting out and meeting other women helps u immensely when doing this
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
    Oscar Wilde



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