So I've written on here about the HB8 I had my first true same night smash with a few months back. She's from outside the country and it's hard to see her, but she's here this week. On Saturday we agreed to meet up at the same bar we met at, and she brought her friend (Another equally gorgeous girl).
But from the beginning the target was acting cold and distant. I sat next to her and tried to do some kino, but there was this weird awkward energy. She was tired from traveling (Hadn't slept the night before) and looked very irritable. But her friend was really nice and we ended up chatting it up more.
Eventually the target began talking to another group of guys, but her friend assured me she'd be back. But she left those guys behind and kept disappearing by herself, leaving me to dance with the friend (I made sure to do it in full sight of her). The friend and I did some close dancing, but again there was weird awkward energy - I was there to see the target, not this girl I had just met. The baffling thing, though, was the target would come back from time to time with beers or shots for us. She must've spent about $20-30 on me that night.
So around 3AM the friend came by, said she found target girl, and they were both exhausted and wanted to leave. I was drunker than I wanted to be (Can't turn down free shots!), so I shifted into beta territory and asked her to stay a bit longer, trying to be silly and goofy. But alas, they wanted to leave together, so she said goodbye, gave me a kiss on the cheek, and said she'd get in touch to hang out.
I was sure this was a done deal, but there was a lot of weird awkward energy and I guarantee I farked up because of it. On top of that it was extremely difficult to keep the attention of this tired, jet-lagged girl. In hindsight I should've probably stayed in, and I can't help but feel I farked things up. Some people told me I should've gamed the friend, since she and I got along better.
So it's been a few days and I still haven't heard from her, so I'm wondering if it'd be worth it to get in touch with her. I'm planning on going out Thursday with some friends, and I was thinking of sending her an invitation. Good idea? Bad idea?