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    Mike177 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Turning My Female Gym Partner Into My Girlfreind

    Hello everyone!
    I have not been dating for the past several months due to a very bad break up. A girl I know through a friend of mine expressed interest it going to the gym with me, as well as making music. I texted her a few days later and sure enough it was not just talk. Today she went with me to the gym, and after we played a few songs together and she left to hang out with some friends, asking when I could work out with her again.

    I took advantage of the gym situation, touching her several times to "correct her form". It was all in a more professional context, as I didn't want to overstep my boundaries on our first outing alone together. She was clearly okay with me touching her and was very comfortable when I did touch her.

    She recently got out of a 6 or 7 year relationship, and I don't think she has dated anyone else since they broke up. She also has many male friends who are strictly friends, and I don't want to be one of them.

    I am thinking about upping the ante next time were at the gym, and be more flirtatious. Also next time we work out it's going to be lower body, and I was thinking about being flirtatious and joke when we squat, as when you spot someone who is squatting your basically air spooning them. However its also unsafe for me to make her laugh while shes resistance training, its just a bit dangerous (physically).

    So do you guys have any advice? I don't want to be stuck in the freind zone. I have a good pysique (tall, muscular, and lean) and I think she is attracted to me physically, and she appears to be comfortable with being alone with me. I just need to get her to know that I'm not interested in just being friends, but in a subtle way - maybe in a blatant way, idk. What do you guys think?

    Right now I don't know if she is working out with me as a way to get closer to me (I'm a gym rat, and it shows), or if she just wants some free personal training.

    Any and all advice is greatly appreciated!
    Thanks bros,

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    Default Re: Turning My Female Gym Partner Into My Girlfreind

    Wait for the experts they will give more specific advice. But, keep escalating and don't get comfortable with just flirting with her at the gym. In fact, use the fact that she is getting free personal training from you and in exchange she has to cook you dinner.

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    Mike177 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Turning My Female Gym Partner Into My Girlfreind

    So here is my idea for right now, next time were at the gym doing squats for the first time I am going to obviously check out her ass, let her catch me doing it, and then insist I am only checking her form, but with a very playful attitude. What do y'all think?

    I had her give me a ride to pick up my motorcycle from the shop today, and it was just a casual interaction. Too boring actually, I need some help escalating verbally as well. Any ideas on topics of conversation that will really give me a good reaction?

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    Default Re: Turning My Female Gym Partner Into My Girlfreind

    "In fact, use the fact that she is getting free personal training from you and in exchange she has to cook you dinner."
    ^This

    When it's you two cooking dinner alone (or something similar), flirting, and having fun, you should definately not be in her friends category. You got to go direct and let her know through body language that you want her, but just don't go full on, use push-pull.

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    Mike177 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Turning My Female Gym Partner Into My Girlfreind

    I will most defiantly ask her to cook me dinner, and I think she will say yes. She has already made mention about me going grocery shopping with her to help her pick out healthy foods so we can make a diet for her. That seems like the most appropriate place to bring it up (IMHO).

    Right now I think I need to show more interest. Of all the people she knows I'm in the best shape physically, witch puts me in a good position at the gym. I think I just need to let her know that I find her attractive in some somewhat subtle ways, maybe obvious ways?

    We are past comfort building, she is very comfortable with me at the moment, I just don't want her getting too comfortable. Next time at the gym I am going to complement her body so she knows I'm interested. I might try kino escalation even more next time were together. I think a pat on the ass might be in order to reward a job well done in the weight room. Do you guys think that would be too much? Right now she shows complete comfortably when being touched on her lower back, arms, and shoulders. I also feel like I need to touch her during times when it can't be viewed as just me correcting her form. I want her to think I'm touching her because I want to touch her, not because she has bad form.

    All input appreciated!
    Thanks to the guys who replied!!!

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    Default Re: Turning My Female Gym Partner Into My Girlfreind

    Don't invest too much in the whole gym thing. It should be just a bridge to getting in her pants. And also remember for most girls being physically attractive comes second to having an attractive personality. Be charming, playful, a tease, fun, interesting, and sexy, and then at the right time do a kiss close. Read up how to do that if you're not sure. If she doesn't kiss back then you know you're wasting your time. If she does then ....

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    Default Re: Turning My Female Gym Partner Into My Girlfreind

    Quote Originally Posted by Mike177 View Post
    I will most defiantly ask her to cook me dinner, and I think she will say yes. She has already made mention about me going grocery shopping with her to help her pick out healthy foods so we can make a diet for her. That seems like the most appropriate place to bring it up (IMHO).

    Right now I think I need to show more interest. Of all the people she knows I'm in the best shape physically, witch puts me in a good position at the gym. I think I just need to let her know that I find her attractive in some somewhat subtle ways, maybe obvious ways?

    We are past comfort building, she is very comfortable with me at the moment, I just don't want her getting too comfortable. Next time at the gym I am going to complement her body so she knows I'm interested. I might try kino escalation even more next time were together. I think a pat on the ass might be in order to reward a job well done in the weight room. Do you guys think that would be too much? Right now she shows complete comfortably when being touched on her lower back, arms, and shoulders. I also feel like I need to touch her during times when it can't be viewed as just me correcting her form. I want her to think I'm touching her because I want to touch her, not because she has bad form.

    All input appreciated!
    Thanks to the guys who replied!!!
    Me, personally, I wouldn't even ask her to cook me dinner. I try to be as assertive as possible and tell the woman what I want her to do.

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    Default Re: Turning My Female Gym Partner Into My Girlfreind

    try bouncing her on an instant date somewhere.... or timebridge a outing together. then do some kino routines.... offer the arm and arm when you get out of the car....be prepared to let her arm go first if she seems a bit loose holding you saying "ok you're losing me". you can also do the quick question game to esculate things up by getting into questions like... age of first kiss, where first kiss, first boyfriend... can be esculated to more sexual questions later... and a kiss close routine. But yes the most important thing is to bounce away from the gym environment


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