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Thread: Need Expert help, neighbor is dating a jerk

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    Cool Need Expert help, neighbor is dating a jerk

    My prob is with a neighbor thatís smoking hot she has a live in bf, that's a cheating jerk. Sheís a very sexy confident business woman type, with a killer body. Anyway, I sometimes stop by her place and usually end up speaking with just her on the back porch. She tells me anything and everything. However, she never looks straight at me as a confident woman would. The posture she takes is that of a little girl that is telling daddy she stole the candy. Iíve watched her when we go to bars as a group and she always approaches and talks to people confidently even men she has attraction to. Her posture when talking to me seems to show no interest, however when she gets even the slightest bit tipsy, she says sexual things to me, but always from the ( girl stealing the candy posture).
    I thought maybe there was no attraction, So I decided to play the I LIKE GAME many puas tout. My 1st like was a boring football, blah blah blah. Her very 1st one was, ďI like ice cream cones dipped in choc an lots and lots of nuts, I like to lick an nibble them till theyíre all gone, Then take a spoon and shove it deep down in the cone. pull it out and put all that yummy cream in my mouth and eat it up.Ē
    Still from the posture, turned to the side, looking away and downward. WTH.
    It has me baffled, this is a sexy confident woman, that otherwise never shows any indication of interest in me whatsoever. Its like shes telling me, I donít want you, oh god But please donít make me be a dirty girl for you. Iím confused. please help!

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    Default Re: Need Expert help

    I wouldn't depend your behavior towards her on IOI's. They are a good guideline, but not the rule. My current gf had very closed off body language to me. But I was persistent. Later on I would find out that my interpretation of her body language had nothing to do with my interpretation. So don't rely on it and just push.

    Although I wouldn't recommend this since she is not just your neighbor, but she has a live in bf. That is just playing with fire my friend. There are others you could chase that can be just as hot.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Huh.. Yeah either she really has something for you, or.. She's completely F*%$ing with you. It seems like you're at least a bit invested in her going off of how you introduced her boyfriend. The problem is I don't know what you're after, what's your end goal? Or do you just want someone elses opinion on the situation?
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    I really don't know what i'm thinking either Most women I just walk up to, tell her she's sexy, blah blah blah, kino, kiss ect. Which I can't do with the bf around. I think I really just want a little nsa sex. Her body language says no, but her dirty comments say yes. Except when she's dancing, I've told her I like her "sexy dancing". She gets directly in front of me and dances really sexy, looks me in the eyes and smiles a lot.

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    I'd say if you're just looking to Fark her, find someone else. I could go into big elaborate schemes on how to get her away from her boyfriend so that you can game her, but why? If you're not emotionally invested in this girl why go through this long and difficult process to just sleep with her? Work smart not hard bro.
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    Default Re: Need Expert help

    Probably right, It's just that I generally put women into two groups, which prob isn't fair. I call them subs and strong. I've found that most women want to be dominated by men and are very easy. The ones I call the strong want to be also, but they are more of a challenge. They generally have their act together. She's one of the strong ones and there aren't that many in my small town. I hate to say it, but I generally don't even put forth the effort with the subs anymore unless I get really horny.
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    We all enjoy a challenge. I get that. But what about what happens after it's no longer a challenge? Is it still worth it?
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    Default Re: Need Expert help

    I know you are right, I just need to hang out in a bigger city and stop hanging around with them. I've just invested so much time around her, I'm letting it cloud my judgement.
    Clouded judgement is bad judgement. I know I could get someone younger and just as hot. Without the bf baggage
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