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    Default Need advice to gauge a female friends attraction

    We are all hanging out in a club, I'm really working the room. I pretty much have flirted with every girl there. I sit with the girl that I consider to be one of my Best friends, but Oh btw is also the hottest girl there at least HB9 . She starts telling other friends about the fun we had at one of her house parties during the summer. She is kinoing my arms and slapping them playfully. She then, when we are more alone, tells me that none of the girls in here are pretty enough for me and that the last girl I talked to was a brown bagger. This girl usually shows me no attraction, or maybe I've been missing the small IOI's, maybe. Been out of the game for a while. But if the chance exist with this woman, I'd sure like to turn her to a friend with benefits. I'm not ready for a LTR right now. Any Advise.
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    Default Re: Need advice to gauge a female friends attraction

    I think you should ask yourself this question:

    Is she worth losing?
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    Default Re: Need advice to gauge a female friends attraction

    Why would I ask that, one of my even better friends than this one, I literally ask to have sex with me, and was turned down, although there was attraction. Sexual attraction is a natural thing, I just don't want to move to aggressively and have to work to get rid of the weirdness that may result from being turned down. But that's always the chance we take. You quite frankly don't want to hang with a bunch of 5's in the first place. So I tend to hang with girls at least 7 or better. Therefore most would be appealing as a sex partner.
    Last edited by Tbone77; 03-03-2013 at 10:06 AM. Reason: misspelling
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    Default Re: Need advice to gauge a female friends attraction

    I understand that, but I also understand the consequences of banging a close friend. I've known this girl since high school and we've been comfortable with each other for a very long time, however, it wasn't until I started learning more about the game did I start building attraction with her. We became friends with benefits and it was awesome, for a while. She wanted more but I wasn't ready for a LTR, so we cut our ties and have not seen or spoken to each other for months. I recently saw her at one of our friend's birthday dinner and I could tell that she was still strongly attracted to me, but we had both already gotten into an LTR. I probably could hit her up again, but I'm just not into what we had anymore because I found something better.

    Every set that we approach we keep in mind our goals, whether it be building a social network or getting laid. But whatever it may be, we mostly think about the close; we hardly ever think about what happens after the close until we get there. We're men; it's wired in our nature to close and deal with the consequences after.

    But on another note, you'd like to make this friend a FWB. I'm going to assume that you're both very comfortable with each other so there's just one thing to do: escalate.
    You've built comfort already, and she sees that you're confident enough to talk to any girl that you want and you can have anyone you want; that's why she keeps putting the girls down. If she keeps saying that "none of the girls are pretty enough for you," say something like:
    "There's more than just physical attraction, you know this right?" *she will agree*
    Say:
    "So besides your beauty...[pause builds suspense]... what makes you different from any girl in here?"

    If you feel it's the right time and you have the opportunity to, which I can bet you've already had lots of opportunities, go for the kiss: "Do you want to kiss me?"
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    Default Re: Need advice to gauge a female friends attraction

    You can also do Kino's 5 Kisses Routine
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    Default Re: Need advice to gauge a female friends attraction

    Thanks for the advice Smoothflow,
    I'm not trying to sound like an ass here I've just been getting a lot of advice from people that quite frankly don't know WTH they are talking about. I've never really practiced what is now referred to as game. I've always been a natural PUA and have only recently started back dating since the death of a partner. I quite rankly have no problems with anything but the actual close. However, getting motivated has been a prob lately. If a friend tells me, just make my friend feel good about herself, she just had a breakup, I can usually be making out with her in mere mins with simply approaching her directly.
    Last edited by Tbone77; 03-03-2013 at 11:34 AM. Reason: spelling
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    Default Re: Need advice to gauge a female friends attraction

    I got you, Tbone. We all have a different point of view, but we're all after the same thing here - self-improvement - and the only way to go is up
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