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    Default How to approach a girl you kno wants the D already

    Theres this chick that friended me on facebook after a night of DJing. I feel like we made eye contact a lot that night too. Then she followed me on twitter a day later.

    The problem is the kind that makes for an awkward situation...

    What is a good way to just break the fuckin ice? Ive had a crush on this girl for a long time now and she definitely is making strives to meet me. I just don know how to break that awkwardness we've been having because of the social network bullshit. Always catch her looking at me which makes it even more awkward considering ive probably had about 1-2 very minuscule small time conversations with her in my life.

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    Default Re: How to approach a girl you kno wants the D already

    Thinking about just breaking the ice via social networking to make it way simpler in person when I finally see her again.

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    Default Re: How to approach a girl you kno wants the D already

    "Hey, I noticed you followed me on Twitter"
    "Hey, I noticed you followed me on Facebook"
    "Hey, I noticed you followed me"
    "Hey, I noticed you looked at me"
    "Hey" <---- safest ice-breaker here, lol

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    Default Re: How to approach a girl you kno wants the D already

    Quote Originally Posted by dondon View Post
    "Hey, I noticed you followed me on Twitter"
    "Hey, I noticed you followed me on Facebook"
    "Hey, I noticed you followed me"
    "Hey, I noticed you looked at me"
    "Hey" <---- safest ice-breaker here, lol <--Unsafe boring ice-breaker
    The other ones are alright. Try something light and fun:
    • "Hey, don't think I didn't notice you eyeballing me :P"
    • "I wish you'd stop undressing me with your eyes while I'm working, it makes it hard to concentrate! "
    • "Hey you! Do you always add gorgeous guys on Facebook and then wait for them to say hello?"
    • "Hey, you should come say hello next time you see me instead of staring at me all night from across the room :P"
    • "You want to know what's so weird? How we add people we like on Facebook instead of going up to them and saying 'Hello'"
    • "I'm trying to figure out what I should wear for my next show and thought, this girl [her name] has good style. Should I go with the pink tutu or the grass hula skirt?"
    • "Hey, how'd you like the show? I noticed you couldn't take your eyes off of me :P"
    • "I was going to start some witty conversation with you, but then I decided to say screw it and skip right to asking you out for coffee. [Such and such a place] at [such and such a time]?"
    There you go. This shit isn't rocket science. Just say something ridiculous and stupid and then rinse and repeat.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How to approach a girl you kno wants the D already

    TheDuke gave some great ideas.
    Basically it comes down to expressing confidence.

    You can pretty much say ANYTHING... and as long as you do it confidently, you'll have success.

    Too many guys over-think & stress about "the opener". (I know, because I used to.)
    But the more playful & fun (and even slightly over-the top / ridiculous) you make it, the more you stand out.

    Girls are attracted to fun, confident guys.
    You don't have to be "clever", you just have to pique her curiosity.

    TheDuke's examples are great because, they're fairly direct & definitely flirty!
    They don't mask the fact that you're interested.
    Instead, they cut through the crap & get straight to the point.



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    Default Re: How to approach a girl you kno wants the D already

    lol, whenever read/think about approach anxiety I always think of the Zac Brown song "As She's Walking Away." General sentiment of that song is very true.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How to approach a girl you kno wants the D already

    can you bring her up next to u on the platform where u DJ? if yes... then try to go to her... take her hand and lead her to the platform... she'd feel the power of being the DJ's favorite... you'll give her a buzz down there...

    then ask any question from what the guys mentioned above.

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    Default Re: How to approach a girl you kno wants the D already

    Great advice in this thread. Props to duke

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    Default Re: How to approach a girl you kno wants the D already

    Ya...i mean i don't have trouble opening random girls. In a situation like this one the girl jus makes it so much more awkward than it should be. I like some of TheDukes ideas.. im gonna go with something similar to the 5th bullet about how we like to add on facebook instead of saying hello.

    Might incorporate the last idea too bringing her up on the stage or booth wherever im at.
    If she was always alone this wouldnt be an issue. Its the fact shes usually with all of her friends whom i also dont know that makes it awkward for me to get her undivided attention.

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    Default Re: How to approach a girl you kno wants the D already

    Would it be too pussy to say one of these bullets over social networking even to break the ice? Then in person i could invite her up on stage next time i see her when im DJing and talk to her more.


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