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    Lost_Confused is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy Should I continue pursuing her or have I been "friended"

    confused:So, there is this girl at my job that I work with. After days of shared eye contact and conversation, she ask me when we were hang. I told her we would when a good movie came out. A week later we finally got her phone and made plans to go see a movie (busy schedules). Leading up to the movies we were texting when she sent a text message saying,"Two friends like us?!?? How could we not have fun? Lol". At the movies, I paid for her ticket, she didn't want popcorn or anything, so I didn't get anything either. During the film, I made her laugh a lot, commentating on the movie and such. I could tell she enjoyed it. After the movie we where in the parking lot for about 10 mins just talking about the movie, work, her car, and some other stuff I don't recall. We hugged, went home, and texted some more. Then she brought up that she has a best friend and he says hi. I know the guy and I consider him a friend and a righteous dude. So the next day she texts me, asking me if I'm at work because she was there buying some stuff there. When I get to work, other coworkers are playfully questioning me about my "date"! throughout the work day, we are texting when she starts talking about one of her favorite restaurants. I told her we should go. She said that all 3 of us should go (best friend) included. I meant for this to be just me and her.My face hurts at this point...... Is this just her way of getting her friends opinion on me or have I been inducted into her category of friend. Disregard the fact that we work together. Please weigh in: should I continue and treat this as a potential relationship or except friend status? Thank you

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    Default Re: Should I continue pursuing her or have I been "friended"

    In my opinion you probably should have tried to kiss her after the movie. I don't know how much kino you have been using whith this chick. Kino is very important,also just because she might have mentioned the "2 friends" thing before the movie doesn't really mean sh:t.. Flirt with her and make sexual comments in a half joking way when your around her but look her in the eyes when you do it. Remember dude KINO KINO KINO when your around her! You must build sexual tension or you will be placed in the friend zone. They all wanna bang you just gotta be persuasive in the right way. I would blow off the diner thing if she wants to bring the other dude but don't tell her that's why just be busy that night or have something come up at the last minute .

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    Default Re: Should I continue pursuing her or have I been "friended"

    In my opinion the "Friendzone" is never permanent, you can always get out of it if you play your cards right. Even if you think you have been friendzoned or clearly have been, always view it as a temporary state of the relationship that you can break free from.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."


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