Re: Sexual energy??
You figured that out and you're a virgin? Wow! That's astounding.
Yes a lot of men with little success with women are not comfortable with sexual tension (because they don't get laid.) So because they are uncomfortable they think women will be uncomfortable and do things to kill that tension. Such as calling it out instead of leaving it a mystery. Or letting it die out and be in the friendzone instead of acting on it. (Women are in discomfort, but it's a good discomfort.)You definitely want to bathe in this tension.
Women are emotional creatures so if you get their downbelow parts start heating up she will eventually not contain herself. It's your job to help her relieve this tension that is now built up inside her. Of course you still most likely have to make the first move, but having tension makes it soooooo much easier and she'll be receptive. Enough tension equals zero rejection.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."