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    Default Follow up to a planned event initial pickup

    Fellas I need your help,

    So I was in a group of 2 with no wingman and ended up getting both girls' numbers this Sunday (Mar 3rd). One of them was actually someone I knew, but never really paid attention to and I'll call her "my acquaintance" to distinguish them. To get the hotter ones number I told her that next Sunday (Mar. 10) I was going to the opening of a bar/restaurant owned by my cousin. She asked a few buy-in questions and then I asked her for her number and to invite her. I didn't tell my acquaintance about the event.

    My question is the following:

    1) Should I text the hotter one to try and go out before the event I told her about?

    2) If not, when and how should I text her about going on Sunday? I thought about inviting both in a group text, because she would be more likely to go if a friend went.

    What are the next steps...

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    Default Re: Follow up to a planned event initial pickup

    The idea is to get a girl alone, you don't want her and her friend together at the same time it won't end up being the situation you're looking for. You've already sort of invited her so getting her to go shouldn't be so hard. Text her before to be like "Hey this is blah blah blahs number from Tuesday" or whatever, remember to make it your own and don't use my bland example, be funny, make a reference to something interesting that day, you get the idea. Hopefully you can get a text conversation going, and from there keep it interesting and ask her to join you at the bar on Sunday.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Follow up to a planned event initial pickup

    Thanks for the help. I'll think of some reference from the night to text her with.

    However, I'm not too worried about the "my acquaintance" going, as I see her as more of a platonic relationship. My strategy was to leverage her approval of me to make the girl I want more comfortable in going. It's not really the best one on one kinda date because I'll have family there and she might think it'll be weird meeting family members so soon.

    Does this change anything? Should I try to see her alone before?

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    Default Re: Follow up to a planned event initial pickup

    Well I suppose you could invite both, I still wouldn't advise it. It's not that you won't have one on one, it's more so that her friend will be there to. when girls are together they act different and are harder to game even if you are friends with one of them. I would say invite her to the place for a little and then try to go do something else, like lunch. If the whole bar thing really isn't a big deal, I'd say don't even bring it up, skip it and go directly to a date. As for seeing her alone before, yeah if you can pull it off do it.
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