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    brahmabull117 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need Some Advice for Girl I Met Saturday at Work

    I met this girl at my job on Saturday (friend of our owners, I sell cars - he gave me her to help out as a customer). She is absolutely gorgeous and very nice - has exactly the look and personality I want in a woman. Has very similar mindset and attitude about life that I do - the bodytype I want and everything. Pretty much as good as it gets (at least from what I can see from the outside). She even has the same attitude about work that I do


    Anyways, I help her out for 2 hours and everything goes great - I ran about as good of a game as I've ever ran, my attitude is just near perfect (I'm friendly, confident, nice, funny, make her work for my attention, act like I'm the prize, etc...). After she leaves, I text her to see if she wants to hang out sometime and she says yes - says that I'm very nice and she enjoyed working with me quite a bit, she would like to hang out sometimes.


    On Monday, I text her some stuff about work - I find out she's going to keep her current car and not go with ours (which is perfectly fine). I talk to her about some personal stuff and she is very responsive and very interested - responds quickly to all my texts and seems to reciprocate similar interest. I ask her to see if she has some freetime this weekend and she says that she's going to be in Chicago the whole weekend. I text her an hour later with "Ok, what day works for you?". My friends at work convinced me to do that as I wasn't sure what to text her next. She hasn't responded since that point (it's been about a day and a half now). It seems like I hit some kind of a wall


    Is this a completely hopeless situation? Is there even any point in me texting her next week? Is her lack of response just a sign that she's not really interested in me? What did I do wrong here? I hate to sound like I'm putting the pussy on the pedestal here but it's just so damn rare to find a girl equivalent of myself - somebody who looks really good, who is smart, nice and is a hard worker/successful as well

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    monoposto is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need Some Advice for Girl I Met Saturday at Work

    I'm definitely no expert, but even I see where you went wrong here.

    Put simply, when you asked her "what day works best for you?" It pretty much conveyed you want her to lead.... She's a woman and wants a man to lead her.

    Secondly, go to the how to text a girl section of the forum and read up on the stickies, they have skyrocketed my text game.. I'm sure the experts will be here shortly...

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    Default Re: Need Some Advice for Girl I Met Saturday at Work

    Yep he's got it right, you gave her the lead by asking her what days are good for her. Next time keep it more open ended, something like "alright, maybe next week sometime" you haven't made a specific day for her to reject or accept, and you haven't given her the power to choose, that way you can text that week without seeming needy. And I would also advise you to check out text game threads, these will get you what you need. Good luck.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."


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