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Thread: N closed, sent first text, meeting up this weekend, how to isolate?

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    Default N closed, sent first text, meeting up this weekend, how to isolate?

    N-closed HB7 yesterday - first time we spoke and I don't know a thing about her. Used her friend as a pivot or whatever you wanna call it:

    Friend - We'll talk later; I have more questions.

    Me - Or you can just give me your number.

    Friend puts her number in while I tease her a about the area code.

    Me - You should do the same as long as your area code isn't that weird

    HB - (laughs) sure!

    Gave a nickname to the HB, sent first text a few minutes ago:

    Hey, (nickname)! It's XXX - let me know if you have any more question about the event. Catch ya later

    Not the greatest, but it does the job. As for the weekend, it's a large overnight event with a large group of people (50ish) - I've already told HB and her friend that they're keeping me company, so it's established that I'll be spending time with them. I'm gonna talk to the friend more than the HB, but keep things flirty with the HB and platonic with her friend.

    The hard part is figuring out how to isolate her because there's a good chance that her friend won't leave her side. I'm sure I can get any of my friends to help me out with that, though. Just in case that doesn't work out, should I be direct? Here's some of what I'm considering using:

    Let's go exploring! (Fun vibe, but that might kill any sexual tension)

    or

    Hey, come explore with me. (A little more serious and can definitely set the mood - my voice has been known to do that often)

    I'll be reaching my hand out when saying either line. Assuming her friend becomes an obstacle and my friends can't take care of her, I'm gonna say something like this:

    I'm gonna borrow your friend for a bit. (Smile, confidence, body language, etc - all done right should get her to go away)

    Ok, I'm taking her away from you and stealing her kidney. We'll be back later! (Sounds a little better, gets a laugh, etc)

    With these, I'll be getting up and leading her with me.

    I have my k-close thought up already since it's her first time at one of these events:

    It's your first time on these, huh? Let's make a memory - come here.

    Any advice on what else I can throw in to get her comfortable enough to leave her friend? Once that's taken care of, I shouldn't have a problem closing.
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    Default Re: N closed, sent first text, meeting up this weekend, how to isolate?

    Not the greatest, but it does the job. As for the weekend, it's a large overnight event with a large group of people (50ish) - I've already told HB and her friend that they're keeping me company, so it's established that I'll be spending time with them. I'm gonna talk to the friend more than the HB, but keep things flirty with the HB and platonic with her friend.

    The hard part is figuring out how to isolate her because there's a good chance that her friend won't leave her side. I'm sure I can get any of my friends to help me out with that, though. Just in case that doesn't work out, should I be direct?
    you didn't really specify what kind of "event" you are taking them to... (the type of venue will determin your best course of action for isolation) i assume you'r going to a party, or small social gathering of some sort? what kind of venue is it? i need more imfo if you want help with this. you're not specific enough with regards to where is this taking place?

    your best option is always to have your wing deal with the obstical or have an excuse to get away (such as going to get drinks/beverages/food or any of the excuses you mentioned) (depending on the venue)

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    Default Re: N closed, sent first text, meeting up this weekend, how to isolate?

    Large social gathering in Jersey in a small community where you stay overnight at a host family's house, but the houses are all scattered. It's dinner, followed by time to do whatever. Everyone has dinner together in one house, though. There are houses scattered throughout where people sleep (guys and girls are separated). The next day is breakfast, then lunch with everyone. There's gonna be time in between for everything, but can't do anything during the dinner - have to wait till later. I'm gonna sit next to her and have my wing with me.
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    Default Re: N closed, sent first text, meeting up this weekend, how to isolate?

    yeah.. the wing will be the best way to take care of the obsticle, however thats alot of people at one house... i presume you're able to leave when you want? maybe try to take her elsewhere on a "date" rather than just isolating her?

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    Default Re: N closed, sent first text, meeting up this weekend, how to isolate?

    Yeah, we can go wherever after the dinner. I want to get some flirting done during the dinner, then isolate. Maybe I should be a little less forward and as I'm isolating, tell her that we're going on a "date?" Is that what you're suggesting?
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    Default Re: N closed, sent first text, meeting up this weekend, how to isolate?

    i'm suggesting that after dinner take her someplace, (you don't have to call it a date) even taking her for a walk, will be far better than trying to isolate her at a house with 50 people there. and if her friend wants to tag along, let her (and even maybe tell her friend what is up so she won't cockblock) you should have no trouble at all getting them away from the house even if you don't go very far, it will be better than trying to game in a crowded house.

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    Default Re: N closed, sent first text, meeting up this weekend, how to isolate?

    Thanks a lot for taking your time, man. Things had to be delayed a bit because I had to AMOG someone. Threw the dynamic off a bit, but here's the FR - http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...html#post87816
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