N closed, sent first text, meeting up this weekend, how to isolate?
N-closed HB7 yesterday - first time we spoke and I don't know a thing about her. Used her friend as a pivot or whatever you wanna call it:
Friend - We'll talk later; I have more questions.
Me - Or you can just give me your number.
Friend puts her number in while I tease her a about the area code.
Me - You should do the same as long as your area code isn't that weird
HB - (laughs) sure!
Gave a nickname to the HB, sent first text a few minutes ago:
Hey, (nickname)! It's XXX - let me know if you have any more question about the event. Catch ya later
Not the greatest, but it does the job. As for the weekend, it's a large overnight event with a large group of people (50ish) - I've already told HB and her friend that they're keeping me company, so it's established that I'll be spending time with them. I'm gonna talk to the friend more than the HB, but keep things flirty with the HB and platonic with her friend.
The hard part is figuring out how to isolate her because there's a good chance that her friend won't leave her side. I'm sure I can get any of my friends to help me out with that, though. Just in case that doesn't work out, should I be direct? Here's some of what I'm considering using:
Let's go exploring! (Fun vibe, but that might kill any sexual tension)
Hey, come explore with me. (A little more serious and can definitely set the mood - my voice has been known to do that often)
I'll be reaching my hand out when saying either line. Assuming her friend becomes an obstacle and my friends can't take care of her, I'm gonna say something like this:
I'm gonna borrow your friend for a bit. (Smile, confidence, body language, etc - all done right should get her to go away)
Ok, I'm taking her away from you and stealing her kidney. We'll be back later! (Sounds a little better, gets a laugh, etc)
With these, I'll be getting up and leading her with me.
I have my k-close thought up already since it's her first time at one of these events:
It's your first time on these, huh? Let's make a memory - come here.
Any advice on what else I can throw in to get her comfortable enough to leave her friend? Once that's taken care of, I shouldn't have a problem closing.
Always leave her better than you found her.