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Thread: No clue how to apply the mystery method

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    Default No clue how to apply the mystery method

    When I don't have sexual desire, I don't want to chat with a girl. I feel it is mundane, boring and wastes my time. I don't want to go out, either, as I feel it is more comfortable to stay at home. When I have sexual desire, I just want to play direct game and find a girl whom I can meet quickly. When I chat with a girl, I incline to engage in sexual chat which may easily offend a girl. I don't have the patience to go through the attraction and comfort process, because it takes a lot of effort to DHV and build the attraction. Also it takes a lot of time to build comfort, by that time I think my sexual desire will wane. Although I read the mystery book and know the glossary, I still don't know how to apply it. I prefer online game since I don't want to go to a bar or club. Any ideas?

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    Default Re: No clue how to apply the mystery method

    Dont go to a bar or club, go embark yourself in a public setting where people are during the day.

    Near me just checking certain areas, they host all kinds of special events, movie, meet ups, and they are all casual...and some are quite classified/more secret.

    Some are exclusive meets for certain hobbies etc to hang out and meet...but good luck faking your way into somewhere you dont belong.

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    Default Re: No clue how to apply the mystery method

    You sir....are just lazy.

    Lol that's ok. I'm lazy as well. But I at least got a good idea of what a woman's reality is like.

    And that's the simple fact that the prospect of sex is not exciting to them. Women usually care more about social status than getting laid. Mystery Method would've told you that. So understanding that women will not jump at the chance to sleep with you unless you're frickin Channing Tatum, will be a good first step.

    Why? Because women get sexual offers from different men EVERYDAY. You may not see this now, but when you get to the point that sex comes easy to you then you will find that you will desire something deeper. A connection. Wtf? That doesn't make sense! If you had regular beautiful women at your disposal like good ol' Hugh then you'd understand this. So don't put sex on a pedestal. High value men don't because they know they can get it whenever.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: No clue how to apply the mystery method

    Go to vegas, and carry a lot of $100 bills. That will fix your problem.

    Other than that, you will succeed only through luck. The stages of attraction and relationship are the same regardless of whether you are in real life or on the Internet. You still have to take a 95% of females through the same processes.

    There is a phrase that is applicable here: "Even a pig finds an occasional truffle."

    That being said, there is about 4% which are just purely looking for sex (hard to find, hard to filter, and sometimes hard to close) and 1% (which you can find in Vegas for $500, or Costa Rica for $80). And about those 4%, do not expect quality by any stretch of the imagination.

    So... if you still don't want to force yourself to be social, then focus on how to get that 5% as fast as possible, expect long delays (think MIA airport), and settle for the occasional truffle and the frequent pig sty.
    - CR

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    Default Re: No clue how to apply the mystery method

    They are right mate, to be fair I have my best nights of pick up when I do not care about the outcome. I go out, I SOCIALISE, I have fun. if I get laid at the end of the night then it's a bonus. if not then I had an epic time anyway so it don't really matter....plus I'll go for a D2 with someone I n closed and get laid a few days later. One of the best ways to get laid is to not care about getting laid......if that makes sense

    Linking x

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    Default Re: No clue how to apply the mystery method

    I am kind of frustrated. I spent so much effort in absorbing PUA skills and chasing girls, but I have few real achievements. I am often blocked by girls, I don't know why. Should I be a nice guy? Then they may think I am boring or they may put me in their friend zone. I used to be a really nice guy. If I behave like a bad guy, I will be easily blocked. I feel lost.

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    Default Re: No clue how to apply the mystery method

    Quote Originally Posted by jackmystery View Post
    I am kind of frustrated. I spent so much effort in absorbing PUA skills and chasing girls, but I have few real achievements. I am often blocked by girls, I don't know why. Should I be a nice guy? Then they may think I am boring or they may put me in their friend zone. I used to be a really nice guy. If I behave like a bad guy, I will be easily blocked. I feel lost.
    Sometimes it may be in the way you talk (not being confident), what you're wearing, the stature/vibe you're giving off, etc.

    Always be in the middle, a nice and a bad boy
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: No clue how to apply the mystery method

    Do you guys strictly follow the M3 model(Attraction---comfort---seduction) when you are in the field?

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    Default Re: No clue how to apply the mystery method

    I had never read any books on strategies for picking up women. It didn't come naturally to me either. I've learned by hanging out w/men that had lots of success picking up women. I also learned by trial and error. Women have also helped me by telling me what attracted them to me and why they decided to sleep with me.

    What I have learned is very similar to the M3 method that I have recently read because of this site and its continuing reference to it.

    How to use the M3 method (attract/comfort/seduce):

    1) ATTRACTION: Let's assume that the following statement is true, "Always remember that a woman will decide if she's going to sleep w/you in the first 30 seconds!" If this was the case, all you would need is indicators i.e. kino, IOIs, verbal cues, etc. to know if you should pursue your quest or quit. You're in LUCK! Those indicators do exist! All you have to do is learn how to read them. That's how you'll know if she's attracted to you.

    2) COMFORT: It is easy to know if a woman feels comfortable w/you almost immediately after meeting her. If she's easily amused by you, if she starts touching you, if she keeps eye contact, if she doesn't pull away from your touch, etc. If her BL isn't overt enough to read, use this test, make any excuse to hold her hand. Hold it for a while, caress it a little and if she let's you, she probably feels comfortable w/you.

    3) SEDUCTION: Skill is essential in this area. Romance will open her heart and her thighs. Women want to feel totally connected to you before they sexually turn on. The setting and the build-up will work together to make the moment work for her. Things like this matter a lot to most women. Don't ASK to have sex! Don't use any of these words: fark, horny, naked, hard-on, wet, etc. Make it a romantic statement of what you want. Make it all about her, look her in the eyes, tell her she's beautiful and you want to make love to her.
    Carpe diem!


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