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    Default Help with HB10. Best way to approach and start game?

    Ok fellas, that could be my sarge of the year, but i need to do it well, and i have no idea how to start! Let me guys give u some info:
    - She is a bikini model. Unreal body and super cute face
    - She is a Personal trainer in the same gym that i work (not as a PT yet...but soon)
    - i'm the new guy, from overseas, and cuz of my personality, almost everybody know me already, and i have a good social value.

    Ok. From here, i share a few hours at the same gym a week, but she is allways with clients, so impossible to aproach. More, we had visual contact everytime that we both ate there, at least 2-3 times every day. She seems that doesn't have a big relation with the rest of the staff...today i saw her alone sitting in a machine, checking her phone and couldn't take it anymore:

    Crazyspaniard: nice exercice..is one of your favourites?
    HB10: hahaha yes! Can u see my strenght?
    Visual contact. Yes. Smile from her. Yes

    I try to look busy and i left laughing, when she was saying somethinh else...cuz i'm a busy man jajaja. Actually i even didn't ask for her name.
    Ok what now? I don't want to act as an AFC. She will have 63915394 guys after her eeeevery day saying how gorgeous she is bla bla bla...
    The negative part is that now, i have not many excuses for talk to her...

    Then, what could be my bes strategy for start. my game??

    Thanks amigos

    Salut

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    Default Re: Help with HB10. Best way to approach and start game?

    Why do you need to worry about excuses to talk to her. You say she is by herself a lot, perhaps she would welcome the chance to chat about anything.

    As far as I'm aware, approach lines are just there to get a conversation going. If she likes you, you can tell her that egg and chips might not be the best post-workout meal, but it's what you'll be having, and she will take that hook and chat back. You'll be there and you'll likely know and receive many IOIs.

    If she isn't interested then, providing that she does offer up some reply, you can then work with the responses.

    And before anyone says, clearly approach lines can vary in quality but the key part is opening conversation, irrespective of what is said.

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    Default Re: Help with HB10. Best way to approach and start game?

    Try giving her a nickname that's a total opposite of how she really is; then the next time you see her, approach with lots of bubbly energy & make her laugh with a little teasing/bantering.

    For example, "Hey couch potato! good to see you finally getting up & doing something!" Then laugh, wink & give her a playful elbow nudge.

    or

    "Nice work lazy butt! It's about time you got up & actually DID something!"

    etc...

    Most guys would never say something like that to her, for fear of offending her...
    But that's the kind of confidence & playful attitude girls love!!!



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    Default Re: Help with HB10. Best way to approach and start game?

    CrazySpaniard --

    First, I've read a few of your posts, and I'm just going to say this, and you already know this... You are letting the HB10 affect you different than the HB7

    So she's a 10... so what. Even if 1/100th of 1% of the world is an HB10, there are 500,000 more out there. Don't let this one have any control over you. It doesn't really matter, in the long-run.

    Second, I would not run a full set of game on her at the gym. She is in her comfort zone, and you've got to act before she keeps more in mind that you are one of the gym guys. So the goal is to immediately get her out of that place.

    I've picked up a girl only once at a gym before (I've personally had hard times there because I am always focused on my stuff, but when I did, I remember that my opener was calling her an equipment-thief (she got on a machine as I was using it, even though I really wasn't using it). From there, I just told her I was about to do flys. This, in retrospect was a good move because I had her keep her hands on my elbows. And I constantly talked to her and told her I was taking her out. So, for me, I was extremely social and direct. MOST guys in the gym stare at girls from a distance and won't talk to them. You are already past that, and you have some comfort with her.

    So my advice here is stop trying to build any more comfort, work out for a bit for some kino (but NOTHING sensual--only workout-kino), create some attraction and then just get her to commit to a night out with you. Do a date-close at the gym and walk away with her number.
    - CR

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    Default Re: Help with HB10. Best way to approach and start game?

    Well comrades! first of all, THANKS for take some time and answer!

    Reading and reading the answers, I get some things:

    - As Dave-O says, I was wrong, i don't need excuses for talk! i should NOT think like that!
    - Loose my shy and move her from that HB10 pedestal. At the end she's just a women, and she goes to the toilet as every human does

    On a negative side, the problem is that usually, the PT, they finish with a client, and they stay around the gym, training, talking, or doing whatever. She finish the client, and just simply disappear.
    This does it mean that literally, I will need to do Kamikazee movements probably. As T-Mal Suggest, or Costarica, give her a nickname, and go away from the comfort zone (that's gonna be more hard cuz as I said, she rarely stay at the gym). I think that with this, I will show her no respect or fear for her spectacular appearance.

    Now, what im going to do, is go next time and say something like that...

    Crazyspaniard: Hey, I think that I don't know yet your name...should I use lazy blonde?

    It's a simply sentence, funny and direct. Perfect for take away her position of "power", and 10 times better than go and say, hi my name is crazyspaniard...

    If someone have some more advise, more than happy to listen, if not, i will try to keep this a little bit updated cuz I will need more help in a future (hopefully!)

    salut!


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