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    vaebaen is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Pof chat over days where did i mess it up anyone

    ME HOWS IT HANGING BAT GIRL? AND WHY DO YOU HATE CAPITALS ?
    HER I dunno... i just think they look weird. lol lower case ones just look cuter. haha. How are you ?
    Me Super energized with a second wind after being awake 30 hours but thats the price of a late night of fun so what fun things are there to do around ______ this time of year?
    Her I dont have any idea. lol I live by _____ . I never really do anything though,I just moved out here from _____ about a year and a half ago so i dont really know what there is to do.
    Me Guess you could fish at the lake for fun. So why did you move from ______ ?
    Her It was just getting crazy. I grew up there then moved to an apartment.There were always fights and shit and one night a guy chased another guy through the parking lot with a gun,so i moved.
    Me You should of just put on your Bat Girl top and tackled the gun man
    Her Haha. I was sitting outside with my friend when it happened. she laid across her backseat. i sat there watching it cus i didnt have cable or any entertainment at the time.
    Me Like watching a free episode of cops just without the cops. me id rather see where the guns at then lay down and hide.
    Her Exactly lol.
    Me Im getting tired i need to get the store closed up. before it gets to late. Ill text ya around 12.00pm tomorrow.
    Her ok. message me whenever
    Me Sorry got busy was on the phone making plans for saturdays concert then the atm guy for the store came in.
    Her Its ok. Whats saturdays concert?
    Me Say Ahh poison tribute band with some new deaf leopard tribute band.
    Her ohh.nice
    Me Have you ever been to any concerts?
    Her I've been to alot of concerts
    Me what was your favorite one? Dont say justin bieber :P
    Her lol. unfortunately never been to a bieber concert. lol. i dont really know what my favorite one was... i love new found glory and go see them any time they're in town. Thats always a good show. Less then jake is tons of fun. And the starting line and all time low a couple years ago was good but i was a little drunk.
    Me New found glorys kiss me song is the only one that i remember of there's. Seems like you like more alternative rock. Them bands dont't compare to poison. But don't worry i will have you liking poison in no time. :}
    Her Poison is defimitely good,just never really been to a show like that. I saw styx last summer,and that's about as close as it gets. lol.
    Me what only good they are the best. O yeah i never told you my name. Ill have you guess starts with a __
    Her Hmmm. ____? lol. im bad at guessing.
    Me correct sorta but spelled wrong.so you only get one point instead of 2. now lets see if you can guess my favorite color.
    Her Red?lol
    Me nope ill give you a hint it dont rhyme
    Her Orange?
    Me yup Orange like a wonderful sunrise.whats yours?
    Her i like anything neon and teal and purple. lol its so hard to pic a favorite when they're all so pretty. lol
    Me I was thinking purple cause of your phone. your at 2 points guess my favorite food hint it sounds like savage dolls and is a italian food.
    Her lol i have no idea lol
    Me You will never make it to 5 points that way lol it was cabbage rolls. k a easy one guess my favorite animal
    Her a tiger
    Me k ill give you that one cause a tiger is a cat. that puts you at 3 points. k whats my favorite movie. hint you've stolen my precious.
    Her LOTR
    Me Congrats you won!!
    Her definitely good taste in movies! :]
    Me Got side tracked busy last 2 days. but ya lotr the best movie ever. Also love the hobbit they go hand and hand though.
    Her I havent seen the Hobbit yet. :{
    Me Think it comes out on DVD March 19th I normally buy it when it comes out. also wanted to see jack the giantslayer
    looks good but ratings are so so.
    Her Yeah. Im so bad at sitting through movies.
    Me Guess that means your the type that talks and throws popcorn during the movies :P .
    Her lol. i just get up to go to the bathroom a million times.
    Me Makes me wanna take u to the movies and buy u the big gulp. lol
    Her lol. So mean. haha
    Me If u had to pick a favorite day of the week what would it be.
    Her Thursday right now. you?
    Me and what would be your favorite time of day. saturday normally.
    Her I like the evening. I'm not a morning person at all
    Me k meet me at ___ _____ Thursday at 6:30 pm
    Her i can try.
    Me you know how to get there right
    Her yup i used to go there all the time.
    Me so are your ready to cause some trouble tonight :P
    Her i dunno. just got out of bed. still pretty sick. My throat hurts like hell.
    Me Nothing a jack and coke wont fix :P

    its pof chat over days. where did i mess it up

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    Default Re: Pof chat over days where did i mess it up anyone

    It doesn't look like you've messed anything up.

    The only suggestion I would make is to start being more flirty now.
    You're spending a lot of time working on building rapport & need to build more attraction & curiosity.

    But otherwise she seemed to be very responsive & not just giving you short replies.



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    Default Re: Pof chat over days where did i mess it up anyone

    T-Mal is right. You are doing fine. However, you are lingering in comfort mode. She already is comfortable with you so move on. It's okay to stay in one spot, but with any new girls, I will not go more than 20 texts without somehow starting to tease the girl and talking about sex.

    For example... This is a pattern/routine I created when I was writing out my own text game manual about 2-3 years ago. I invented this text-coupon idea, and now I use it all the time and take screenshots of these "coupons" when girls send them to me. Girls are HUGE on commitment and you can play this coupon game against her emotions and trust.

    Go to the contact in your phone of her and rename her: "Justin Beiber". Then screenshot the page, send her the screenshot where she can see you renamed her (and when she says "wtf") you can tell her that you've decided that you have a secret fetish for beiber and that that since she's a fanboy (which she isn't) you've consolidated your fetish fantasies into one person. Then she will be funny-defensive. Regardless, she is being defensive. So then the pull here is this: "if you aren't really a fan boy, I'll take it out only if you send me a pic of yourself with a sign that says "I love vaebaen" << in other words, you are creating a hoop for her to jump through. She probably will think you are kidding about all this, so let her down nicely and say "fine. I'll change your name, but you owe me one." << now she is on the hook for owing you something. Make her send you a "text coupon" that says "I owe vaebaen a free ice cream."


    Sooo... that was a long paragraph, but my point is this:

    1. I teased
    2. I introduced the words fetish and fanboy (light NLP words you can use later)
    3. I got her feeling funny-defensive.
    4. I created an imaginary hoop that I knew she wouldn't jump through.
    5. I then crated an easy hoop that her lowered expectations that she would jump through.
    6. I now have a coupon that I can redeem for ice cream.
    7. I did this in about 8 texts.


    This is gaming. Like chess. You need to be advancing towards a goal. Not just talking. Sop moving your pawns around. Pull out the rook, the knight, etc. Move them and go for checkmate.
    (My god, i don't even like chess and I just made that analogy).

    In my phone, I have about 20 "coupons" where girls have agreed to own me some very crazy sh1t and I have been known to send girls random texts and say "here is my coupon. Be at my house at 7:35am so I can redeem this coupon, or I am reporting you to the Fair Trade Commission. << ** I AM NOT KIDDING ABOUT THIS.

    If anyone is interested in the coupon thing I can write more about it in another post. I have a LOT of material I've created that I haven't really posted to any boards because I've always just used it for myself or for people who I'm working with.
    - CR

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    vaebaen is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Pof chat over days where did i mess it up anyone

    i just thought i screwed it up cause she didn't reply after the jack and coke thing and she didn't go on the date and wasn't sure if i should wait a bit to send another text.


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