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Thread: Stood up on second date. Advice?

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    Default Stood up on second date. Advice?

    Hey all, relatively recent lurker, brand new poster here. Anyway, I met a girl online, exchanged pleasantries, and arranged a date to see some music a few weeks ago (Feb 16th). Date goes well; lots of IOIs and she seems to be genuinely interested and having a good time. She doesn't have a car and the buses stopped running by the time the show let out, so I volunteered to drive her back home. Drop her off, make out a little, and talk about going on a second date. On my way back home, I receive a text thanking me for the ride home, so all seems well. Next day, we make plans to hang out again that Wednesday at 8 pm, and text on and off until then.

    Wednesday comes, and I show up to our arranged location a little after 8 and she is nowhere to be found. Hang out for a little bit before I send a text asking if she's going to make it. Nothing. Bounce back home, confused.

    No texts until that Saturday, when I playfully ask if she's still alive. Still nothing.

    Fast forward to this past Sunday, almost 2 weeks from the last time I heard from her, I get a text saying "what's shakin?" No explanation about the flakiness. I freeze her out until Wednesday, when I ask what happened with our date. Her reply (after a day): "that was me being an asshole probably." She then went on about how she recently went to the place where we were supposed to hang out and how much fun she had.

    I want to reply and say that being an asshole is a terrible excuse and flaking on the date followed by 2 weeks of radio silence is unacceptable and that she needs to make it up to me if she wants to be in my life.

    So here is where I ask for advice. Is this appropriate action to take? What would you guys do? Something tells me I'm going to get a lot of "delete her number" responses.

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    Default Re: Stood up on second date. Advice?

    That's probably the best bet.
    But you COULD giver her a little bit of a test/challenge to redeem herself...

    Don't say anything to HER about it being that way...
    but get a little teasing / bantering going on, & then tell her to come to your place & bring a pizza &/or drinks with her.

    If she complies, then cool! Forgive & carry on.
    If not?.. "NEXT!"



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    Default Re: Stood up on second date. Advice?

    NEXT!

    Don't even send another text. Fuck this girl, she's playing you.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Stood up on second date. Advice?

    Delete her number . to play some mind games on her
    if she ever text again , IGNORE IT
    she text twice , ask "who is this ?"
    Now ignore any call/voicemail or text she may sent , delete them from your phone as you receive them to save your face and never look back
    that girl is real trouble


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