Hey all, relatively recent lurker, brand new poster here. Anyway, I met a girl online, exchanged pleasantries, and arranged a date to see some music a few weeks ago (Feb 16th). Date goes well; lots of IOIs and she seems to be genuinely interested and having a good time. She doesn't have a car and the buses stopped running by the time the show let out, so I volunteered to drive her back home. Drop her off, make out a little, and talk about going on a second date. On my way back home, I receive a text thanking me for the ride home, so all seems well. Next day, we make plans to hang out again that Wednesday at 8 pm, and text on and off until then.
Wednesday comes, and I show up to our arranged location a little after 8 and she is nowhere to be found. Hang out for a little bit before I send a text asking if she's going to make it. Nothing. Bounce back home, confused.
No texts until that Saturday, when I playfully ask if she's still alive. Still nothing.
Fast forward to this past Sunday, almost 2 weeks from the last time I heard from her, I get a text saying "what's shakin?" No explanation about the flakiness. I freeze her out until Wednesday, when I ask what happened with our date. Her reply (after a day): "that was me being an asshole probably." She then went on about how she recently went to the place where we were supposed to hang out and how much fun she had.
I want to reply and say that being an asshole is a terrible excuse and flaking on the date followed by 2 weeks of radio silence is unacceptable and that she needs to make it up to me if she wants to be in my life.
So here is where I ask for advice. Is this appropriate action to take? What would you guys do? Something tells me I'm going to get a lot of "delete her number" responses.