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    Unhappy re-seduce the seducer

    Hey all,
    So I messed up big time with a total seducer type. Fell in love and let my emotions get the better of me. She is married and I had her on the ropes to be with me. Then I let things get the better of me (plus some other personal stuff that got to me). Anyway I came off as needy and turned her off. She started distancing herself becoming "busy" and not contacting me where she was all over me before. Oh and we work in the same general group. She walks by now acting like Im not there. But we will probably be in meetings and such together in the near term.

    I could use advice on how to get this girl back. Spare me the married woman stuff. The husbands a jerk and she married him to settle.

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    Default Re: re-seduce the seducer

    Married, coworker, not into you at the moment... Next!

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    Unfortunately there is no next with this girl. I just cant let her know that I know. Shes utterly gorgeous and the sex was amazing on both parts. We are talking marathon romps. I know I rocked her world on a several occasions. I just scared her off being a seducer. I got lost and forgot my game plan. Im looking at how to play this right get get her back.

    Right now I am playing it cool and have not contacted her since the beginning of the week. Though I know I will see her next week in a meeting.

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    Default Re: re-seduce the seducer

    If her husband is really that much of a jerk , maybe she'll file for divorce and you'll meet her again and things will work out for the both of you but til then move on with your life , meet new girls . That's usually when they comeback

    Also i want to point out that the only thing you managed to describe about her is the look and how sex was amazing , to me this sound like you're running after LUST . just my opinion

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    Default Re: re-seduce the seducer

    Flowtime,
    Thanks for the response. Being an online forum I don't want to go into to much detail. But I have done alot of investigating and yes I do love her. I wish it was lust. We are BOTH attached. Though mine is on the ending end due to a whole bunch of other issues.

    The woman I am speaking of fits the seducer type down well. She is very strong, fit and self secure. She is very turned off by anything she sees as insecure or a "problem". We dated solid for half a year. It wasnt tell a month after the L word came out of both of us that things went sour.

    I have read a ton of things on do you really want her back etc. But this woman truely has me gone mad. I KNOW that she wants me on certain levels. Just looking for some advice on how to move forward.

    Right now I am in NC mode. Though I see her regularly in halls etc. Do I try and say hi. stay pleasant? Right not I am trying to stay friendly but not looking needy. Making a point to say hi. Even if she walks by.

    Keep in mind we never had a fight. She made a comment about my being overly attached and then suddenly was cold as ice.


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