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    Exclamation HELP! College parties

    Hey everyone, got a few things I need help with at college parties. Yes i've searched and Ii read bandits field guide.

    1. What are good ways to open. If I see a girl dancing with her friends ill walk up put my hand on her waist and ask to dance, but it fails a lot. What are better ways to approach at college.

    2. Then when I do go to dance, my hands are all over the girl, her legs, grabbing her hands. How can i turn dancing into kissing her?

    3. If we stop dancing I turn around and I see the girl with another guy, almost all the time its a football player...How can I steal her back?

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: HELP! College parties

    1) Open with something funny.. "You are the worst dancer of your group of friends... lemme show you how it's done" *dance moves (learn some if u don't got any).. then she'd probably ask for your name.. if she doesn't introduce yourself.

    2) dancing to kissing can be done in 1 step or 2 steps.
    1 step would be dance, turn her to facing you, pull her in lean closer, brush nose and privet in for the kiss .. do it slowly.. don't just yank her in and head butt that sh1t. metaphorically speaking.
    2 step process would require you to say, "I'd love to take you out for drinks and know more about you, not just your dance moves... can I get your number....." After, say "thanks, I'll text you" and lean in for the K Close (quick peck) .. usually they want more if they are into you.

    3) How to steal her back.... usually you can't.. the girl chose with her instincts who she wants to associate herself with at a party.. if she likes you she'll keep herself engaged to see what you got to offer.. Having that been said.... like a PUA, we look for options, we don't settle for ONE. So here's my advice, if you only want her... then make your impression count. If there are other fishes in the whole party, close whoever you like, but don't act like a player.. show them all, that you got "social value", talk to them like a real man and rake in the sweepstakes at the end. It's how you present yourself that can win points.. which in turn can lead to winning a girl who swam away ..."by accident"

    hope this helps!

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    Default Re: HELP! College parties

    Tis dance game thread is epic, should help
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...-debunked.html

    Linking x

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    Default Re: HELP! College parties

    Quote Originally Posted by studmuffin52 View Post
    1) Open with something funny.. "You are the worst dancer of your group of friends... lemme show you how it's done" *dance moves (learn some if u don't got any).. then she'd probably ask for your name.. if she doesn't introduce yourself.

    2) dancing to kissing can be done in 1 step or 2 steps.
    1 step would be dance, turn her to facing you, pull her in lean closer, brush nose and privet in for the kiss .. do it slowly.. don't just yank her in and head butt that sh1t. metaphorically speaking.
    2 step process would require you to say, "I'd love to take you out for drinks and know more about you, not just your dance moves... can I get your number....." After, say "thanks, I'll text you" and lean in for the K Close (quick peck) .. usually they want more if they are into you.

    3) How to steal her back.... usually you can't.. the girl chose with her instincts who she wants to associate herself with at a party.. if she likes you she'll keep herself engaged to see what you got to offer.. Having that been said.... like a PUA, we look for options, we don't settle for ONE. So here's my advice, if you only want her... then make your impression count. If there are other fishes in the whole party, close whoever you like, but don't act like a player.. show them all, that you got "social value", talk to them like a real man and rake in the sweepstakes at the end. It's how you present yourself that can win points.. which in turn can lead to winning a girl who swam away ..."by accident"

    hope this helps!
    Thanks for the reply man, so here is how my weekend went...

    I saw that girl again the one I danced with, I saw her and her friends on the dance floor and then I just walked up to her grabbed her hand and smiled and then we started dancing. Then I did what the dance guide said and I started grazing my nose/face along hers, and told her se smelt good. Then out of nowhere she would tell me she has to go and shell be right back...next thing I know I turn around and shes dancing with some other dude! Same thing kept happening, I dont get it.

    So the night went on and this other girl grabbed me and we started dancing right in front of her, I guess trying to make her jealous if she saw me but nothing really happened she was dancing with some random dude again...

    Am I just another random guy for her? She seemed like shes into me when dancing but then she seems like that with the other guys shes dancing with too.

    And I keep forgetting to get her number -_-

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    Default Re: HELP! College parties

    Alright, so an update...

    I was walking back to my dorm and then I saw the girl I danced with, she looked over and smiled, so did I. So I walked over to her and jokingly said "what? your not gonna run away from me again?" She laughed I asked where she was going, etc. etc.

    As we were walking I setup my phone for a new contact and then just handed it to her.

    She went to class I went back to my dorm, I texted her when I got back using the first text line "so heres my number call me maybe."

    Now where can I go from here? Do I ask her to hang out to get to know each other better? Is there a better way to word it? I dont want to sound thirsty she seems like a cool girl and i want to see where this leads me...

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    Default Re: HELP! College parties

    No. Just no. You don't 'ask her out to get to know each other better'. Think of a really cool/fun date you could do, then tell her to come with you on that date. An example of the date could be to go to a video game arcade, play a few games and say the next person who wins buy icecream, go get icecream somewhere you know is awesome, then go walking around the town. All the while building rapport and escalating kino.
    If you're wanting to know how to text her, read:
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    Default Re: HELP! College parties

    Quote Originally Posted by KingKino View Post
    No. Just no. You don't 'ask her out to get to know each other better'. Think of a really cool/fun date you could do, then tell her to come with you on that date. An example of the date could be to go to a video game arcade, play a few games and say the next person who wins buy icecream, go get icecream somewhere you know is awesome, then go walking around the town. All the while building rapport and escalating kino.
    If you're wanting to know how to text her, read:
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    Thanks, but we go to a college in bumblefu*k, there is nothing to do for an hours drive! Our campus is ghey and boring.

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    Default Re: HELP! College parties

    You don't have to do those things I mentioned, you just should try to do things interesting/fun and most importantly, different, to what any other dudes have done with her on dates. It sets you apart from anyone else which will give you a big advantage. I'm sure there is something you can come up with to do on campus.

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    Default Re: HELP! College parties

    Quote Originally Posted by KingKino View Post
    You don't have to do those things I mentioned, you just should try to do things interesting/fun and most importantly, different, to what any other dudes have done with her on dates. It sets you apart from anyone else which will give you a big advantage. I'm sure there is something you can come up with to do on campus.
    I really dont know what to do! Were in the middle of nowhere.

    Also here is an update, i didnt text her for a day so I decided to text her today, here is how it went:

    Me: Youll never guess what happened today
    HB: What? Lol
    Me: I saw something that reminded me of you
    HB: Whatchya see?
    Me: You silly, when you walked by me (we passed each other today while i was walking to class)
    HB: Haha ahh gotchyaaa
    Me: So what are you up to today
    HB: Studying, cleaning, eating some cake then goin out
    Me: Ahh, i see, happy bday. I better get a piece of that cake! (i said I see because at coincidence i was on instagram and she posted a pic that shes going out for her bday)
    HB: Lolll it might be gone fasttt
    Me: Where you goin out?
    HB: to the bar (the only one in our small town)
    Me: have fun, try not to miss me too much
    HB: Haha ill try

    How did that go?

    Also, I was in the gym when I sent the last like 2 messages, when I work out i am plugged into my headphones. Then when I went to go use a machine I saw her sitting on it, I said hi and asked he why she stole it from me. Then continued to workout.

    She completely caught me off guard, i didnt expect her to be there, i turned the corner and BAM! there she is...My mind has like different modes, i was focused on working out, not gaming/talking to girls, so I didnt really say much to her, is that bad?

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    Default Re: HELP! College parties

    I think your game is not bad but also not very good. What I don't see you doing a lot of is:
    *Creating attraction
    *Demonstrating High Value
    *Escalating
    *Gaming multiple women
    *Being focused on yourself and allowing her to become a part of your reality, instead of obsessing about her.
    *Showing sexual prowess and confidence

    From what I've read I think you'd benefit from really working on your inner game. Then you can enjoy girls chasing YOU


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