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Thread: Got a date..on ONE condition

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    Default Got a date..on ONE condition

    I N-closed a bartender a while back then I went back and she working again and we were flirty and she gave me a big hug. When I walked out, I asked her out and she said.. Next Thursday. On ONE condition, you have to come up with an extravagant and interesting outting or else I won't come out.

    I need your help PUAs. Tell me any ideas you have heard, read or have done in the past that worked well. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Got a date..on ONE condition

    Go karting......most fun date Iv ever been on lol

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Got a date..on ONE condition

    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    Go karting......most fun date Iv ever been on lol

    Linking x
    This is awesome. I never thought of this as a date idea! haha
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Got a date..on ONE condition

    Do it, I mean it's not great for kino and stuff but I went karting and then went for a drink afterwards, you get a nice fun vibe going as well

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Got a date..on ONE condition

    I dont know the girl....but ti sounds like she was half joking and trying to get the upperhand.

    I would reply with..... you know I was thinking of taking you on a helicopter ride of the city, karting, a fancy exclusive restaurant (whatever you canthink of in your city)....but i remembered I reserve that stuff for girlfriends. Besides, everything I do becomes awesome. that includes grocery shopping. Can you keep up with making things awesome when I take you to go buy cucumbers?

    This will put things back in your frame....and if shes cool shewill play off the cucumber thing or at least get her thinking If she laughs and flakes.....screw her....shes a gold digger.....if she says yes to whatever....then shes cool and actually wants to hang out. and you can reward her with actually taking her somewhere cool ( but leave that a surprise....but do tell her how to dress).

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    Default Re: Got a date..on ONE condition

    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    Do it, I mean it's not great for kino and stuff but I went karting and then went for a drink afterwards, you get a nice fun vibe going as well

    Linking x
    What you lose in kino you gain in adrenaline and competition!
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    Default Re: Got a date..on ONE condition

    If you live in a place where this is available... Go on a gondola ride. Like 80 bucks and it's something I guarantee she's never done before.

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    Default Re: Got a date..on ONE condition

    I dunno... this sounds is a compliance thing to me. Or a test. She is basically saying that you better come up with something fun or else. She might let guys take her out all the time just to get them to pay for fun dates.

    I like boondock's reply. No alpha complies with a woman so early on. She obviously knows she is valuable (she is a bartender and gets hit on alot). You are valuable too so there is no need to comply with her until she complies with u.

    Ask her for coffee just so u can see if she if she is a gold digger. Tell her to prove herself fun and interesting before you hang out with her seriously.
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    Default Re: Got a date..on ONE condition

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    ... She might let guys take her out all the time just to get them to pay for fun dates.
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    Ask her for coffee just so u can see if she if she is a gold digger. Tell her to prove herself fun and interesting before you hang out with her seriously.
    ^^ this

    and do use the idea mentioned by one of the guys about not telling her where you're going. just tell her what to wear. gives off that you're in control and know what you're doing.

    interesting date tips for later: take her for something normal at first, like a coffee shop. then when she proves to not be a gold digger, change location (changing locations does wonders. makes u look like you're always after something interesting. plus it gives off an image that you're not afraid to be spontaneous). go rappeling/ascending, hiking, karting, anything AWAY from alcohol; you dont wanna remind her of her work. road trips are nice too (get drinks, munchies to have if the "urge" rises and you're into that).
    avoid normal/expensive restaurants and the movies; especially the movies.

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    Default Re: Got a date..on ONE condition

    This girl could possibly flake judging from the way she gave you an ultimatum.
    I think you should turn things round before you ask for the date.

    I may have replied ..i'll come up with anything fancy as long as your paying...

    this will set it up as her onto you thus flip the dynamic where she is controlling the frame.


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