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    Default Is There Rule On How Long You Should Wait?

    So I K-Closed and #-Closed with this girl last night. I'm fairly new to the game and I need some pointers.
    I honestly messed up b/c I'm pretty sure I could've F-Closed that night if I had some balls. I'm going to learn from the mistake by having a better understanding of logistics.

    So 10 mins after k-closing(we both called it a night), she texts me how she had a great time and what not. I basically have fun with the texting by teasing her, which was congruent to the way our interactions were going during that night. She enjoyed it...



    Anyways, I would like to meet up with her again, but I don't want anything serious. How do I go about relaying that message without sounding like an asshole? She texted me this morning(she was responding to one of my texts from last night), but I was sleeping/hungover so I didn't get a chance to respond. So now what? I can text her back, but is it too early? I found her on FB...what's rule of friending a girl you just met on FB. Is it a bad idea to wait a few days to text her back?

    Also, I don't drive(I'm 25), but that's something that's out of my control right now. Though, I will be driving within a few months, so it's not going to be an issue in the future. So no driving AND my parents live with me. Ultimately, it's these 2 issues that are messing up my inner game when it comes to F-Closing and dating. Any help on this would also be great. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Is There Rule On How Long You Should Wait?

    Text the next day everytime IMO. And my rule for facebook is I don't add her, she adds me.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Is There Rule On How Long You Should Wait?

    There is no such rule. It doesn't exist. Period. Eliminate the idea of "a waiting period" from your mind.

    The only rule that matters is this: keep her excited, escalated, and just enjoying herself. If you can do that 10 minutes later, or 10 days later, then so be it.
    - CR

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    Default Re: Is There Rule On How Long You Should Wait?

    Quote Originally Posted by costarica View Post
    There is no such rule. It doesn't exist. Period. Eliminate the idea of "a waiting period" from your mind.

    The only rule that matters is this: keep her excited, escalated, and just enjoying herself. If you can do that 10 minutes later, or 10 days later, then so be it.
    As a beginner with no experience with calibration my suggestion is still the sooner the better.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Is There Rule On How Long You Should Wait?

    I never wait. When the night is over and i know she can't come back with me i be sure to set something up for lunch another day. I also tell her to text me when she gets home so i am sure she got there OK. This starts the text game and shows that i care for her well being. There has been times when the girl has dropped off her friends text me and then came over. She said no in the beginning because of her friends.
    I have also got a # close and kiss close early in the night. Later i keep my game going with other girls. I noticed set #1 at the bar and i text her. vodka/redbull. Guess what she got me.

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    Default Re: Is There Rule On How Long You Should Wait?

    So I texted her and got decent banter for 15-20 mins or so. Her final text made it seem like that she was interested in this situation continuing. I didn't ask her to meet up with me b/c I still don't know what schedule is going to be like for this weekend. What to do?


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