Hello, this might take a time reading so go ahead and grab your popcorns! anyway. im gonna start by introdouce myself,
name is Martin, i live in sweden. ive heard the game on ebook ive seen mystery show and ive been on this forum for almost a year now. im a virgin, and its tbh kinda frustrating.
in school im not the nerd guy but im not the alpha male that ppl love to be around. but im in the " cool " group and im playing my part. i go to parties and i can talk to girls with kinda ease. still my gaming levels is really low but i could still say exactly what to do but it just feels wrong when im actually gonna try it on a girl. im 185 cm tall so im not this short guy, but im 68kgs kinda thin for my age. my biggest issue "threat" is actually my kinda best friend. he is 190 cm tall big guy looks like 20 years old + and he is not every girls desire but as soon as he talks to a girl they love him already, literally any girl. and as soon as i think that girl is so hot imma try with her, i feel threatend by my friend cause it feels like girls just go right into looks and it doesnt matter what i say cause he is better looking more muscles etc etc. and he is gonna kinda steal my girl.
so its been a while since i actually been on this forum cause month ago i was like fark this its never gonna happen anyway lets just wait til the moment comes to me. but today i realized u cant wait for the perfect moments u have to create them. im not looking for a life long relationship with some girl ive been dreaming about. actually my only goal is to see that i, me, myself actually can be someones " crush " that actually a good looking nice girl likes me and doesnt ditch me for my looks.
when i was younger i was the clown of the class. i made ppl laugh and i did stupid things. and i think ppl see me as who i was even this day. thats why im not the most populare guy. so who i am at the moment.
i ride motocross and i like that style,
i really like rock music. and my dream is the rockstar life. you know getting girls lean style just chilling.
when im at parties im thinking to myself dont be that over energy guy thats up dancing 24/7 trying to get attention.
last party i actually sat down took alot of space leaned back and showed me big. i didnt drink myself drunk for the whole night. and it actually felt kinda good. i got some eye contact with some girls dancing on the floor. i took that kinda positive but it still feels like they dont want me when a better looking guy is in the house.
my clothing style is kinda street style, snapback cap with bigger shirts and ripped jeans. not swag style, but ive gotten comments like do u ride motocross, u must be good at skiing etc etc. i take that positive only thing i believe girls think that style is kinda boyish and every girl wants a man! i actuallly just bought a leather jacket that i look kinda good in but i always wear a cap, i just cant figure out how to do my hair i want a more peacocky style with abit rock style but still keep it normal so i dont get a wtf is this kinda look. i think you get it. so as the title says i need a god damn life changer right now! shape my life up at this point.
- how to alpha male " out my more good looking friend "
- gaming, especially at parties like this
- getting attention
- get girls to chase me ( actually never had a interested girl text me first...)
- inner game
- demonstrate higher value
- be a more interesting person in general
yes as you see its many things i wanna change i didnt say its was gonna be easy, but as soon as i get a good response as you get from " ask a expert " thread im closer each day, im not aiming for perfect, as i said my goal is improvement and i wanna see results!
: here is an little extra story to come with if you wanna read it. so i wrote to this girl that's in my school same age, i see hear mabye once a week in the building we are in. but iv'e never talked to her in real life. i dont even think we got eyecontact. but i wrote to her on facebook. and we had a chit chat about stuff. thing with this girl i cant really see anything that is wrong, nice smile good lips pretty face good body. then i just realized thisg girl got big hands!, anyhow it doesnt feel like she is really intresed but she actually replies to each one of my messages. i made her laugh couple of times but really no smileys. i made a little joke about her hand and bla bla it escalated to i called her officer big-hand alice. and she was hahahaha your sick! and i replied well your laughing at it so i guess its good . she laughed couple of more times and i felt ive got this i just need more material etc etc
but she feels abit bitchy and that im not even in her mind. and i'd really like to se progress with this girl if you could give me some advices on this. that was all from me, im gonna head to bed. and i hope for some replies when i wake up! thanks for everything!