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    Question Do you care how many guys a girl has been with? (college)

    So im a sophomore in college, and like every other guy on campus, I am lookin for some girl.

    I have met quite a few girls but I havent f-closed yet. I havent been with 1 girl since I have been at college (2 years!).

    Here is an example, I met a girl this weekend and I danced with her, added each other on facebook. But I see in her pictures shes with a lot of different guys. Idk why but when I get into a girl this annoys me, like why do girls whore around in college?
    How do I ignore this type of thing?
    Does this kind of thing bother you guys too?

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    Default Re: Do you care how many guys a girl has been with? (college)

    Be careful of uni/college girls, they are at a stage where they dont know what they want, and don't mind testing the waters with different guys. My first F-close in uni lead to a year relationship, which I shortly found (my now ex) had been with 6 other guys leading up to me. Depends on their social context, what they feel is acceptable, etc. Once I heard my ex had been with 6 partners prior, it did bother me to the point where my ex was worried about me leaving for judging her as being 'loose'. Either way everyone has their preference and its something you will learn to care less about imo

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    Default Re: Do you care how many guys a girl has been with? (college)

    Honestly, you should put your pride aside here.

    First off, they are just pictures with guys. I have photos with other girls, it doesn't necessarily mean anything. Second, girls have lives, so what they did before should not bother you (unless it was something COMPLETELY messed up).

    That's my take on it, so no, doesn't bother me really.
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    Default Re: Do you care how many guys a girl has been with? (college)

    Thanks for the replys, and no i know they are just pictures, but i can tell when a girl has been with a guy. Like yeah i ave pictures with mulitple girls.

    But idk how can i get this out of my head...

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    Default Re: Do you care how many guys a girl has been with? (college)

    Don't make a big deal about it.

    If it is a big deal to you... Don't make a big deal over her. They really are just pictures but if that is something that makes you feel uncomfortable... Find a different girl. Bringing something like that up will tell her that you are insecure. If she likes you more than the rest of the guys... You really have nothing to worry about. I am dating a stripper right now. She is out every night until 3 or 4 in the morning at work with guys who are throwing money and compliments at her left and right... yet she still looks forward to coming home and climbing ontop of me. Personally, I like that feeling. Knowing that I have what ever other guy wants and they don't know how to reel her in.

    Second, stop going out seeking sex. It shows right through. Women need to feel the emotional connection before you should even hint anything about sex. They want to know you want them for them... Not for the hole between their legs. Women have a very good sense of people and they can see right through you. Go out simply for the purpose of the interaction and to get better... That way, when the girl you do want a relationship with comes around, you are ready to go.

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    Default Re: Do you care how many guys a girl has been with? (college)

    Im in college, literally LITERALLY have not met a good nice girl yet, just when i think a girl is nice and i get into her, i find out shes a hoe. Thats what i think my problem is

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    Default Re: Do you care how many guys a girl has been with? (college)

    What?! You're kidding, right? Man, if I would have cared about that and let it stand in my way, I would have never gotten laid in college! I have some concern about your prejudice regarding something that is irrelevant.

    Firstly, let's address your description of a woman exercising her freedom as a human being. You state that they "whore around" and by doing so your mind will interpret that as labeling them "Whores" and that, my young Padawan, is why it disturbs you so much. You've been programmed to look for the Virgin Freaking Mary! A very puritanical and antiquated mores to live by.

    Secondly, you are experiencing the first manifestation of "Jealousy" - the ultimate confidence destroyer, heart breaker, misery maker and pity pot. You may not be able to accept that she has had a multitude of experiences before meeting you and your jealousy (which is actually FEAR) causes you to doubt your confidence. You may be thinking, "Is she going to compare me w/all the others?" Of course she is! And, it doesn't matter if it's one or one hundred! You may also be thinking, "What if I'm not as good as the others?" True, you may be better than some and not as good as others. Don't worry about it! Stop your thinking from going down that destructive cycle.

    Lastly, A woman will never tell you how many men she slept w/no matter how sincere you think she looks! So, you will never really know how many men a woman has bedded and it shouldn't matter anyway.
    Carpe diem!

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    Talking Re: Do you care how many guys a girl has been with? (college)

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    Im in college, literally LITERALLY have not met a good nice girl yet, just when i think a girl is nice and i get into her, i find out shes a hoe. Thats what i think my problem is
    There are NO SUCH THINGS as hoes, sluts, floozies, skags, libertines, etc.

    IF THERE IS, SEND ME ONE!!!
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Do you care how many guys a girl has been with? (college)

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    Idk why but when I get into a girl this annoys me, like why do girls whore around in college?
    The same reason guys do and the same reason you are. Cause it's fun and fark it, it's college.

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    How do I ignore this type of thing?
    Ask yourself this.
    1. Do you really want a virgin? Having to hold their hand through the entire deal, tons of resistance, and the chance that it'll be to tight to fit. Not to mention the blood. Plus afterwards they're going to be super clingy. No girl wants their first time to be a one night stand.
    2. Who are you to judge. You're on a site that teaches guys how to sleep with chicks, but when a girl uses their natural assets to do the same thing, it's socially unacceptable. So don't freak out.
    3. Experienced girls are more fun.

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    Does this kind of thing bother you guys too?
    Nope. I prefer it. As long as they're clean, I'm down.
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    Default Re: Do you care how many guys a girl has been with? (college)

    I've had a girlfriend dump me just because I was her first one. The thought of being with only one man her entire life freaked her out.

    I really don't mind virgins, but they very bad for LTR. A former slut that has got bored of ONS is actually what your should dream of if you're looking for a LTR.


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