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    Default She kissed me and how to get a D2??

    So went on a date with this girl i've been texting. We went to brunch and later walked and talked around the neighborhood. Everything went great! Lots of eye contact, smiling laughing etc. I qualified her a couple times by asking what kind of car she drives, saying how if it's a prius we are going to have a problem and said to her if I added her on FB that she could only stalk me once a day. She replied with, "no, Ill only stalk you 2-3 times a day"!! I probably didn't do much kino, and even thought about holding her hand and thought maybe she would want me to kiss her. This will change the next time I see her.

    Eventually she had to go to pick up friends from the airport. So I walked her to her car and then it happened.... SHE kissed me! I couldn't believe it. Usually i'm pretty good at reading the girls body language and knowing if she wants to kiss, but she didn't give me any of the usual indicators.... I was kind of shocked tbh.

    So, I have two questions.

    1) she keeps asking me what i'm looking for and what I want. This has happened twice now, but only over text. The first time I brushed it off by saying "you may either be a blessing or a lesson, but that's a puzzle we have to figure out together" and the second time she asked I said "I'm just looking to meet new people, but I think we'd be fools to ignore this..." with which she agreed to. So why does she ask me this? She has stated she wants a husband and a baby (at some point) but that was in a different "text" conversation when I asked her about her dreams.

    2) how do I get a D2? She actually flaked on me the night before when we were originally supposed to meet, but I was so hung over and I didn't care, so just told her she owed me for flaking. (lol, I actually feel like she did me a favor for that since I felt so sh1tty and wouldn't have been fun) regardless, after she kissed me I tried to get the D2 but she just said yeah sure and said to text her.

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    Default Re: She kissed me and how to get a D2??

    Meh, anyone?

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    Default Re: She kissed me and how to get a D2??

    Neither of those were really questions, but i'll try my best.

    1) As for her questions about what you are looking for, you might want to be a little more specific with her, you seem to be beating around the bush and not really answering her question.

    2) With regard to her flaking don't assume it's because she's lost interest, she may legitimately have something going on that she has to attend to. Problems in her family, an issue at work, jury duty, I don't know it could be anything. Just take that into consideration and give her a little space, a few days to a week and she should contact you, if not contact her and try to set up a date. Just a tip, try to get a good conversation going before you suggest hanging out, if you come out of nowhere and ask her first thing she will probably say no. Good luck.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: She kissed me and how to get a D2??

    Yeah, my plan was to get a good conversation going tonight and tomorrow over text and then just see if she was up for something.

    However, today I send: It has seven letters, the last letter comes before the first in the alphabet and it is putting a huge smile on your face.

    I get no response back. From a girl who usually texts back within 2-3 minutes and tells me "she is more simple and genuine than I might think".

    I dunno, I will try to reinitiate later tonight. Got any good text openers after a bomb like that one? I also didn't send her anything yesterday, the day after our "date", did I somehow F*ck something up here? Am I being too elusive??

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    Default Re: She kissed me and how to get a D2??

    Alright, since she is not responding at all I would refrain from contacting her again for a while. Sending multiple texts a day every day to try and get a response will have a negative outcome. I know it's hard and you expect a response since you've been accustomed getting them so quickly, but take a step back and just think about how it looks from her point of view, It won't look good. give it a few days to a week, she should get in touch with you. If she doesn't contact you after a week send her a message like "Alright, I see how it is.." This will get her attention if she's still interested and she should reply, and if not it's time to find another girl.

    As for not texting her after the date, that may have been where you messed up. You should always try to get a conversation going after a date, and even more so if she kissed you. Even if you don't have a full on conversation at least say you had fun, and that you guys should do it again. She may feel that she kissed you and then you ignored her, which would probably give her mixed signals.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: She kissed me and how to get a D2??

    Sorry, didn't mean to mis-communicate a bit, I haven't sent her multiple texts in a day if she doesn't respond. I usually just go about my business. I did text her after the date saying I had a great time, just not the day afterwards. But, hearing this from you and T-mal makes me think, I'm F*cking up by trying to not be needy now, which in turn is giving her mixed signals....

    I think I get this now. I'm going to send her something later today or tomorrow. Got any good ideas for a re-ignition text?

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    Default Re: She kissed me and how to get a D2??

    So, I ended up sending her a follow up, that had to do with a funny situation we both had this last weekend (not when we were together) and..... No response.

    This chick is weird though, I know my game was pretty solid (not perfect) as she even said she wanted to meet me in the neighborhood I'm living in and see where I grew up etc. after the kiss, as we were saying good bye.

    So, I'm just going to freeze her out. Any ideas on how long? Also any ideas on why she just went cold and NC? This is seriously confusing the sh!t out of me!

    EDIT: I also feel like this may be a possible shit test?

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    Default Re: She kissed me and how to get a D2??

    Hey, read the posts and the suggestions to you are solid!

    Freeze her out COMPLETELY! Suppress the urge to contact her. It will only move you closer to the AFC syndrome if she doesn't respond to your needy nagging.

    If you find that you MUST contact her or you'll go Schidzo, call her, don't TEXT! If she doesn't answer, don't leave a message. If you find that you have kick started an OCD pattern and have to leave a message, tell her you are going to do some really fun stuff and are inviting her to join you. Then, say no more. No I miss you, I've been texting you, NOTHING pleading nor questioning the current status of your interactions w/her.

    If she doesn't respond, move on to the next experience. It's like you told her, "you may either be a blessing or a lesson, but that's a puzzle we have to figure out together." Except, this puzzle you'll have to figure out on your own.
    Last edited by EMSaenz; 03-14-2013 at 12:35 AM. Reason: add sentence
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: She kissed me and how to get a D2??

    Thanks dude, definitely going NC for a while now.... I've had my share of good and bad dates, but never one that went so well and then just ended up in such a weird precarious outcome. Seriously F*cking weird sh!t....

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    Default Re: She kissed me and how to get a D2??

    dude, give her some time, seriously.
    She might be sh1t-testing you a bit to see how you react to No Contact, if you stay cool or not...
    If you guys're gonna go steady, I guess she needs to know you're not gonna be mega needy and text her all the time.

    So here's some advice I got a long time in regards to dating:
    "Always be cool"

    Also, it sounds like she really likes you, wanting to see where you're from etc. I wouldn't worry about it


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