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    Shadowcomplex is offline PUA in Training
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    Default gotten my work crush and there could be a new girl

    I am glad to say that I have gotten over the crush that I have being posting here about since I joined and its all down to two things I have recently read has given me this freedom

    I bought How to be an Alpha Male by John Alexander and there was a section on nice guys, neediness, jealousy and insecurity which really I could really relate too and I don't know how but I'm free now

    this has also helped

    http://www.google.ie/url?sa=t&rct=j&...43287494,d.ZG4


    On a separate issue, there could be another girl at work whom i've never spoken to and whom works in a completely different department to me but I think she may like me

    Why do I say that,well because every-time I pass her in the corridor which isn't everyday because its a big company she smiles and says hi, now I could be misinterperting this wrong but my instincts say otherwise, its just the way she smiles at me its hard to explain, its a kinda half embarressed smile and she looks down and then looks up and smiles again

    I would like to make a move but i'm not sure how to go about it

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    Default Re: gotten my work crush and there could be a new girl

    Always follow your instincts, if it feels right chances are it is. As for how to go about gaming her it depends on if you will be able to talk to her inside work for a bit. Try to find some downtime or approach her on break. Possibly ask her if she would like to join you on your lunch if you take it at the same time, invite some of your other co-workers along if you don't feel comfortable with being alone with her yet. Another is to ask her what time she gets off, if it's the same time or very close tell her you guys can talk more when she gets off. I'm also currently interested in a girl at my work and a few others, and these tactics seem to work well for me. Good luck.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Shadowcomplex is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: gotten my work crush and there could be a new girl

    I found out her name today, should I call her by her name next time we pass each other or leave it for now and just smile and say hi, she also has a facebook page, should I friend her or perhaps wait until Ive had a conversation with her first

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    Default Re: gotten my work crush and there could be a new girl

    Got another smile off her today as she walked past me in the canteen bu this time she did a bit of a hair flick thing, i definitely think shes interested now but these things are tough to go about at work

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    Default Re: gotten my work crush and there could be a new girl

    Did you know that MOST guys during her regular day go indirect? They try some sneaky tactic to get in close because they're afraid to let her know from the door that he is interested. Go in direct. Don't call her by her name. And definitely don't friend her on FB. That's just creepy. Go up to her and TALK. About anything. If you aren't worried about the job environment then go direct and just ask her out. Doesn't need to be more complicated than it has to be.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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