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Thread: Need help She disappeared after a great 2nd date

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    Default Need help She disappeared after a great 2nd date

    Hello there,

    I am a begginer and new to the PUA and i have just started reading about it recently since i picked up this girl and i need help so here is the deal,,
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    So she used to participate in my college class and she is the one who started opening me by adding me on facebook and contacting me alot
    and i accepted so she gave me a green light to ask for a first date so i asked her for the number and the first date was alright and had a little bit of kino
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    then the second day she called me while i was in college and she was there and arranged to see me again and we spent a good second date so here is what happened during the second date
    1-we had alot of kino
    2-she introduced me to her female friend and a guy who was with her friend and i befriend them two and we had fun and she always done kino to me
    3-we spent a good day together and i told her in the end while we were in the bus leaving that i had a good day with her and she said that too but somehow after we were leaving the college she stopped smiling as her friend found out that her mobile phone was stolen
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    so after this second date we talked on facebook and everything was good then suddenly she stopped talking and didn't reply although nothing wrong was said
    so i texted her on phone the next day and she called me saying ''who is this ? '' then she hanged up
    note : when i checked out her mobile on 2nd i found that my name wasn't on the contact list and she had no male names as well although i think she is a player
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    the next day today
    i gave her a call before going to the gym but she didn't reply and still disappeared on facebook chat as well but giving her friends comments.
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    I am sorry if i wrote alot but i still a begginer and i would like to get the experience from you guy
    thanks

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    Default Re: Need help She disappeared after a great 2nd date

    I don't know, that seems pretty messed up on her part. I'd say she isn't worth your time if she's going to treat you that way, forget about her and find someone who isn't playing games. The only thing I'd say you could have improved upon is to have tried to kiss close her, possibly when her friends weren't around. Some people get a kick out of messing with peoples emotions unfortunately, I wouldn't give her the time of day even if she asked for it. Don't get discouraged, just keep at it and find other girls. Good luck.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Need help She disappeared after a great 2nd date

    Very very odd. I have a girl in my life like this...she would jump my bones but then when I was like hey lets go do x she was no where to be seen. Rarely answers my texts, but whenever I run into her she is ready to go...very annoying. I pretty much don't talk to her much anymore and I am in a better mood for it! But thatoneguy is right if she is that crazy then just back off, maybe shell hit you up eventually. If not oh well, that lay is probably not worth the frustration.

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    Default Re: Need help She disappeared after a great 2nd date

    It could be possible that she is just used to calling the shots. She's done a lot of initiating. So if you don't take advantage and make yourself a challenge then she could get bored. And since she is used to calling the shots then she gets to choose whether to entertain herself with you or not. Of course this is all speculation and just an opinion.
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    Default Re: Need help She disappeared after a great 2nd date

    Alright,so i think that the best solution based on your opinions is
    Freezing her untill she calls and then refusing her next date and arranging for another one after a day or two .

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    Default Re: Need help She disappeared after a great 2nd date

    and shall i stay online without talking to her untill she talks on facebook ?
    or shall i go offline for her on FB and wait for her to call on mobile ?

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    Default Re: Need help She disappeared after a great 2nd date

    Alright gentlemen

    @BatMan
    You were right she is used to initiating the shots and choosing who to go on a date with from her list of other guys
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    it's been a month since i started freezing her out after she didn't reply to my fb msg and my phone call

    so now neither me nor her tried initiating after that and i saw her 3 times at university but i gave her my back and she acted like she didn't see me like we don't know each other then later she unfriended me on facebook 10 days ago before i started some DHV on my FB


    and started working on my DHV very well like uploading quality photos on FB with groups of friends and HBs and the results were : -
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    so yesterday i sent her a message in a sarcasm way telling her that i suddenly remembered about her so wanted to say whatsup

    --- the result :-

    she didn't reply to the msg but otherwise ,
    as the privacy for my pics is public and she is a mutual friend she commented on one of my new DHV pics i took with a group of girls saying '' nice picture 'myname' '' but she didn't add me .

    so where do we go from here ?

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    Default Re: Need help She disappeared after a great 2nd date

    Don't go anywhere,you're already being needy IMO.

    Act like you don't give a shit,you talk to her briefly if she talks to you first,or if she deserved your comment/compliment.
    No more calls/texts.

    Push/Pull her using your body language,not words.

    If she's acting this way,this is how you're supposed to treat her.But don't go overboard and block her on your FB or something.You act alpha,you don't give a shit.


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