Re: Doing a favour for the girl I like
Yea, never throw yourself freely out there for her to turn to. Eventually, a favor will transform into her using and manipulating her whenever she wants. Oneguy nailed it on the head here. Humans, by nature, are a very selfish breed of creature. If there is no gain for you from doing something, then don't do it at all.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X