I hear and understand everything you say dude. It sounds a little egotistical but I understand that as a guy you need have drive and passion which I do. I'm getting better all the time. I used to feel like a loser but I've had success in other areas of life and I'm pretty smart so I know I can accomplish a lot of amazing things.
I just need to reshape my thinking. Maybe role reverse think a little. If a girls asked out alot of guys and word got around that she did so then I probably wouldn't care very much.