Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 2 of 2
  1. #1
    Lupo is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 53, Level: 1
    Level completed: 6%, Points required for next Level: 47
    Overall activity: 5.9%
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    2
    Points
    53
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Co-worker in a relationship?

    Hi all,

    I would not go into many details... my feeling is that there was an instant attraction between me and a co-worker when we fist met not long ago. We started getting closer and hanging out together (texting, going out for launch, to the mall, spend a couple of weekends together with friends etc). No actual dates, but we were spending time together and learning about each other.

    Understandably, I started getting more and more into this girl and eventually made it clear that she's more special to me. At this point, my behavior made her feel a bit uncomfortable. I decided (by following advice) to back off for a while and see how she is going to react.

    It turns out that she has a boyfriend. I do not know almost anything about their relationship, maybe she is not loving him anymore. However, I never felt like such a fool before. My heart is saying that there is something special between us, but my mind is saying that she was probably just enjoying the flirt and me being her new buddy.

    Why would she "use" me like that? Is it possible that she is actually interested in me? I did not want to make the story long, so I may answer any questions to make it more clear.

    Thanks a lot!

  2. #2
    Lupo is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 53, Level: 1
    Level completed: 6%, Points required for next Level: 47
    Overall activity: 5.9%
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    2
    Points
    53
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Co-worker in a relationship?

    Update:

    My "strategy" with ignoring her resulted in a text message that I received few days later. After talking/texting more these days she invited me to join her and her friends for climbing out of town fow one day this weekend. It is very likely that her boyfriend is also there. What the hell is she trying to achieve? May I now consider myself officially in the friends zone only?


Similar Threads

  1. Need help with co worker
    By Shadowcomplex in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 12-30-2012, 04:17 PM
  2. how to get with a co-worker
    By salty in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 10
    Last Thread: 09-26-2012, 07:54 AM
  3. Need help with co-worker
    By grooven70 in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 04-19-2012, 03:43 AM
  4. Latin relationship saved by relationship rewind
    By romancelatina in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 03-12-2012, 07:47 AM
  5. Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 11-12-2011, 11:00 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com