Short version - I'm not trying to land a girl here. I tried to hook up with my room mate and now she's avoiding me. But this has to be addressed because she has to pay rent or break the lease. Right now it's in limbo and idk wtf to do. Also wanna know if I really did anything that bad or if she's just being dramatic... I really, really need some help with this guys so of you have a minute I would really appreciate it.
Hey guys. I'm a college student, I live with two other students one dude one chick. Chick moved in like 3 months ago, she's HB7 and cool but I told myself no need to get involved and make it awkward. We get to hanging out, after a couple of months I decide I like her. Some of my more experienced friends were hinting that hooking up with her might be pretty cool. So I like her, friends got my back, and it's killing me cus idk how to tell her. One day she's dropping me off to take a test and I try to kiss her before I leave. She says no and I'm like damn ok but thanks for the ride.
I text her a bit later like look no need to be awkward I respect if you just wanna be friends. She said ya and I said ok lets do that. Here's where it got kinda bad. It's really bugging me so a couple hrs later I text and I'm like real talk I could use some advice when it comes to chicks. She says just patience and talks about her exes and how her 10+ Hookups didn't make her happy. So I reply I get the patience part but I gotta make moves at some point, I'm still a virgin never had a girlfriend etc. and that I had to try that just to prove I still had some nuts. She responds kinda sh1ttily, "haha ok but for future reference your roomie isn't the best way to do that". Next day I'm like fark now she thinks I'm just a desperate virgin trying to get in her pants. So I text her, sorry it's awkward but not sorry about how I feel, I genuinely like you etc. but I'm down to just be friends and I care about you and my friends on a much deeper level. No reply.
That day she tells my other roomie she's moving out after spring break. I haven't seen her for two weeks but she moved a lot of her sh1t out. She's avoiding me. I text her ask her if she's moving out. She says she's not sure what she's gonna do. I'm like everything ok besides that? She says yes. I say you can always talk to me if it helps it's really NBD. No reply.
Here's the problem. Now my parents are wondering if she's moving out, cus they pay the rent, and they don't know that this happened or what's going on with her. This has to be addressed. She's kinda immature and has a flair for the dramatic so idk wtf to think. Did I really fark up that bad? All I did was try to kiss her. Never expected things to go this bad. Secondly, how do I solve this? Text doesn't seem to be working so I think I might just call her. Like look you gotta pay rent or move out this limbo sh1t isn't cool.