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    Default She asks ''how are you''

    Don't know why, but whenever a girl asks me ''how are you?'' (via text/Facebook) my brain just cant seem to rustle up a decent response. I tend to think that the standard ''I'm awesome/good, you?'' response is way too bland/universally used and as a result, boring, which sets a negative frame from the get go. Maybe I'm over thinking the situation and should opt for the standard line, but I'm an outside the box thinker and like to go for the more spontaneous response e.g. ''I'm awesome, if I got any more awesome it would be a sin, you?''....I guess I should quit thinking about whether or not she's going to respond in the best manor to what I say and just trial and error whatever comes to mind. What's your take? And please feel free to share any other good responses to this question?

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    Default Re: She asks ''how are you''

    Just answer how you are, there's no need to be totally OTT about it. In my mind, being OTT almost comes across as too try hard, especially if you repeat it that way again and again! Answer how you are and then lead on to a conversation in which you can be more fun.

    Sometimes you will have better answers like..,

    I'm excited, I can't wait until X

    But not always and she's not going to expect any differently, she will just want to know how you are and in some form she's showing interest by engaging you in conversation.

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    Default Re: She asks ''how are you''

    Don't over-think it.
    I've used the "I'm Awesome" reply LOTS of times. It's always better than "Oh, pretty good, how about you?"

    You can also use that as an invitation to take a more bold initiative & inject some humor, and see if you can get her to meet up.

    "How am I? I'm hungry! Why don't you bring over a pizza & we'll have a melted cheesy good time! "

    Or something semi-ridiculous like that.

    It's gonna be a LOT different than any other guy would respond with, & she'll remember it.


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    Default Re: She asks ''how are you''

    But you can't reply with a line like that ALL the time, can you?

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    Default Re: She asks ''how are you''

    It depends on the girl, the situation & your personality.

    But, if you're in a great mood & you do it with confidence & energy, you can pretty much say anything you want.
    (Especially if you're trying to build attraction)


    Being direct, silly & funny is totally MY personality, so I almost always snap back with something along those lines.

    It works great for me, because that's how people know me. (And if they don't know me very well yet, they'll figure it out pretty quickly!) LOL!



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    Default Re: She asks ''how are you''

    Appreciate the good responses guys and completely agree with your points made. Flicked her the ''How am I? I'm hungry'' line and worked a charm sprinkling a touch of humour is definitely added to the arsenal.

    Cheers.

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    Default Re: She asks ''how are you''

    She responded with ''haha, eaten so much pizza past few days soo good.''

    Thinking of responding with something a long the lines of:

    ''welcome to the team, pizza murderer lol!...got my eyes set on a meat feast bonanza right now...lets tag team this meaty mess!''

    what you think?

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    Default Re: She asks ''how are you''

    LOL!
    That's right along the lines of what I would say...

    And..... Anytime you can throw in some subtle sexual innuendos is ALWAYS a plus!


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    Default Re: She asks ''how are you''

    completely agree! but my sexual innuendo games on the ropes right now (especially in text), think you could shed some light on that for me bud? Maybe something to add to the above line just so I get a gist of what sort of things I could be adding...

    Much appreciated t-mal

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    Default Re: She asks ''how are you''

    You already injected a couple good ones....

    "Meat fest" / "Tag team"

    So subtle that YOU probably didn't even notice them.


    Also- check this thread for ideas on how to escalate via text/email by using innuendos.



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