Re: Make them chase me
Eh, sleep with random girls you are just trying to have fun with. You don't want to be completely inexperienced when you finally meet "the one" I suppose. There is no problem with having high standards, just make sure you aren't setting them to unachievable levels.
Part of having confidence is knowing what you can do...you can't really achieve this mentality for real unless you aren't afraid of women. Only having half of this coin can make you come off as a total tool.
KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple