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Thread: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

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    Default Re: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

    Well your problem is that you're going for a freeze out when you've already tried before. It will be far less effective the second time round.

    There is a limit to how many times a relationship can break up and get back together and you've broken up sooooo many times that In my opinion this isn't recoverable anymore. You've really lowered your value by lying to her and constantly asking her questions...

    Personally I think you just need to apologise tell her your more mature and you know what you want and just go for it.

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    Default Re: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

    If the relationship was dead, she would have made it clear. She clarified it just by saying that for now she cannot be with me. Because I've driven her mentally ill with my questions. She hasn't killed it forever. We both know it. Still sidewinder, can you please answer the questions I mentioned?

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    Default Re: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

    I can relate to her being driven mentally ill...


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    Default Re: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

    I've pretty much answered your questions... The freeze out won't work a second/third time round, she will move on because she'll guess what you're doing.

    Not responding may make her mad or more likely she'll just stop caring.

    She has basically told you the relationship is over... the "not right now" comment is a polite way of her trying to let you down gently, it's not a "we can be together in the future".

    The problem is you've handled the relationship in a very immature manner thus far (don't worry we've all done it at some point) and your only small shot here is to alter that behaviour by being frank and blunt. Tell her how you feel, without being really gushy and emotional and then give her space to think on it.

    This will show that you are being mature and you're not badgering her as you did before.

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    Default Re: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

    You got three chances and it's quite obvious she likes you, most PUAs will say you should let it go lol but if you really want her go for it!!! Another thing, don't get too obsessed and remember there are so many girls better than Vaso out there

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    Default Re: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

    Just had a huge argument on the phone cause she thinks I have told her more lies. So I ask her If I wanna come for you, shall I do it? And she says do whatever the fuck you want! She was pissed! Shall I go for her in 2 months?

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    Default Re: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

    I've been in this type of situation, a girl was trying to pick between me and some other guy. I saw her messages too and i was a bit disappointed cos i didn't find her too attractive but she had a big ass. What i did was cut her off, she became lonely and she's still single now. Bro, to be sincere your story is like a movie...but my advice is go and see her. Anytime your with her, you spark something in her, she can't control but if you talk to her on phone she'll continue to be cold...most girls do that...And if that doesn't work...leave her, she'll come begging and by that time you'll have found someone else

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    Default Re: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

    CashJerk thanks you are amazing! But I told her on the phone shall I come for you? And she was like screaming. So I ask her are we done forever? If I come and ask you to be together again? And she says I never said that but I would probably say no. :-(
    You say I should still go?

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    Default Re: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

    Now it's really obvious she still likes you...just go and meet her, and do your normal thing. You'll probably leave smiling

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    Default Re: Need desperate help. Here is my love story.

    I cant go now. She is still pissed. I will go for her in 2 months. Till then I am going NC.


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