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Thread: Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

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    Default Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

    Been seeing this girl for a while now and have playing my cards right so far and we get only so well.

    However today we've been flirting through texts and then she asks if ' I miss her yet ' .

    I froze coz I am not sure how to respond . Obviously I want to say yeah of course I miss you coz we get on great n enjoy ur company but don't want to come off needy/desperate

    How would a true PUA respond to this?

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    Default Re: Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

    Don't say "Aw i miss you" make it a little less direct, something like "You know it " but of course you should say you do, I mean what else are you gonna do say "no I don't miss you" that probably won't go well for you. As a PUA it's not about what you say, it's how you say it.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

    If a girl asks me the question: "Did you miss me"?

    A lot of the times I'll reply back "Yep.. with every bullet so far! "

    Or if she asks "DO you miss me?"

    The reply can be "Apparently so, I don't see any gunshot wounds yet... "

    Don't be afraid to go a little over-the-top occasionally.
    Just make it playful & fun.


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    Default Re: Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

    I'd overdo it, make it really ridiculous like ' of course I miss you, every moment I'm not with you feels like an eternity, without you by my side it feels like a piece of the world is missing and the thought of not seeing you again makes life seem like a black hole of grief and misery......I think I can deal without seeing u for a bit longer tho '
    I done this the other day and she thought it was hilarious

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

    Don't go down the genuine yeah i missed you route... it shows too much interest and gives her all the power.

    T-mal and Linking's responses are gold.

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    Default Re: Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

    Definitely!

    Either go for "over-the-top cheesy" So that it's obvious you're kinda teasing her about asking you, or go for the playful smartass response.



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    Default Re: Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

    So you have a shit test to answer I guess. T-Mal and linking words are well written

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    Default Re: Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

    You can also use this as an opportunity to escalate sexually. You can say something like, "Well I miss that fine booty! :P"

    There are a plethora of options for a response to this.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

    Lol, one thing I thought of was "I miss all my sugar mommas"

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    Default Re: Girl I've been meeting/texting asks if I miss her?

    T-Mal's responses are funnier than mine. But anyway, this is how I deal with "miss-yous."

    Her: "Hey. Do you miss me??"
    Me: "Hmm. I miss some things, but not others. Don't ask me which ones because I can't tell you."

    From here, I lead into getting her talking about something completely off-topic, usually dirty.

    -- OR --

    I will actually trigger this as a conversation. This is an amazing conversation starter in the middle of a non-text-dead-period:

    Me: "HEY! TELL ME YOU MISS ME"
    Her: (almost always) - "I miss you" or "Do you miss me?" or "tell me first"
    Me: (regardless of what she writes): "Nope. I did miss you. But now I'm mad at you. I'm not telling you why".

    Again... I lead into her curiosity and eventually tell her that I don't miss her because we haven't kissed (or whatever) enough and that I require cookies, milk, hugs, and affection in order to feel like I "miss someone".
    - CR


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