So I met this girl last semester in one of my classes, she sat near me and i never talked to her or payed too much attention cause i tough she was way out of my league. We met up in a study group right before the end of the semester to study for a test and I was pretty much teaching everyone in the study group. The day before the final exam we were txting and it was really flirty, got a ton of ioi from her, i ended the txt conversation on a high note and the next day we just spoke a bit before taking the test.
We went on break back to our hometowns and i think this is where i screwed up. I txted her one day when i was back home just to try and have a conversation and she stop responding after a . couple of them.
I again have her for a class this semester and so I first tried hanging out with her with the excuse of doing a hw. I runed into her at bar one time but she was leaving and we barely got to talk. I invited her out with my friends a couple of times but shes always said she had something to do that day.
She needed help with another subject I am very good at, and she kept asking me to help her but i felt like she was just trying to use me. Last week we finally met at the library to study for a test for the class we have together and i tutor her on the class she was having problems with. while we were studying i noticed she was attracted to me. I also sent her a drunk text laughing about the test the night after it and she answered right away with something playful which i dident reply back to since it was friday night and i wanted her to know i have a life and was having fun.
I think when i first met her she was attracted to me but i lower my value too much by txting her and just playing it wrong. A friend of mine who also reads up on pua material whos known the story since the beginning told me at this point my best bet is to ask her out on a date just to make my intentions clear since Ive only invited her out with friends. I figured she had to know i was interested already since I've texted her to hang out before and invited her out with my friends and shes always either said she was busy or stopped answering. my friend said that she could think im just trying to sleep with her and by asking her out on a date i could let her know im serious.
I will really appreciate the help guys. I know if i took her out on a date i could sweep her of her feet. And if you do think i should ask her out on a date, how do you think i should do it?
Thanks in advance again for all the help.