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    Perez91 is offline PUA in Training
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    Unhappy After success, guy comes in and swoops her

    After 6 months of a weird more than friends relationship I finally f-closed and lost it to this HB9. After the f-close on wednesday she came over friday and again we ended up messing with each other. She tells me that she loves me and finds me attractive. However, she mentioned that her love is not "romantic" but that she enjoys what we have.

    Last night, I knew we were both going to the same party. I avoided texting her etc. because I didn't want her to think I was just going because of her. At the party I gave her tons of space and was even trying to hit on some other girls. She came up to me and then started talking to me and getting very close to me and touching etc. I calmed myself cause we don't want the school to know whats going on.

    Then a guy that really likes her and who she finds attractive (he is a BETA though, they have watched movies together etc. and she has given him tons of IOIs and he hasn't even tried to hold her hand) However, they were both very drunk. Her friends ditched her and she asked me for a ride home. I said sure. Then as we were leaving she ran into the bus where this guy was, and didn't even say anything to me.

    She later told me that she forgot that I was there and that she was drunk and her friends were on the bus. However, I know for a fact that she was with him last night because her tweets make it very clear.

    Q:
    1) How do I proceed with this relationship? Should I continue the FWB arrangement and ignore him?
    2) Is there anyway to mess up his game? Or do I let him mess it up himself without me doing anything on my part?

    Thanks.

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    Nixxx is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: After success, guy comes in and swoops her

    Don't mess it up for him. Promotes bad karma. I did the bf destroyer on a girl one night [didnt close]. Karma hit me hard an hour later when the girl came up to me later that night crying whilst in a 3 set. Heartbreaking stuff but had to be nice to her as felt guilty.

    Regardless of how good you ever get with woman, never ever ever. forget manners are the most important thing. Don't be a dick because you have an idea of woman and fuck up some other guys chances because of it unless he is a total bellend.

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    Default Re: After success, guy comes in and swoops her

    She retaliated cause you didn't give her the attention she wanted. I'm not saying you did the wrong thing, that's your call. But as for what's his name the Beta dude, it sounds like he's giving her plenty of attention, you just don't see it. Probably cause it's when they're alone.

    AS far as I can tell, you had the chance to take her home and you didn't. You made the same mistake too many guys make. It's called PUsh-Pull for a reason. You can't just push all the time and ignore her. You've got to show some interest, show her you're attracted to her and that you want her. That's the pull.

    As for what you do now, that's your call. You can probably salvage it, but I'm warning you, FWB never stay that way. It either ends in hurt feelings or a relationship. If you really want to keep fooling around with her, keep her as a booty call.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”


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