After 6 months of a weird more than friends relationship I finally f-closed and lost it to this HB9. After the f-close on wednesday she came over friday and again we ended up messing with each other. She tells me that she loves me and finds me attractive. However, she mentioned that her love is not "romantic" but that she enjoys what we have.
Last night, I knew we were both going to the same party. I avoided texting her etc. because I didn't want her to think I was just going because of her. At the party I gave her tons of space and was even trying to hit on some other girls. She came up to me and then started talking to me and getting very close to me and touching etc. I calmed myself cause we don't want the school to know whats going on.
Then a guy that really likes her and who she finds attractive (he is a BETA though, they have watched movies together etc. and she has given him tons of IOIs and he hasn't even tried to hold her hand) However, they were both very drunk. Her friends ditched her and she asked me for a ride home. I said sure. Then as we were leaving she ran into the bus where this guy was, and didn't even say anything to me.
She later told me that she forgot that I was there and that she was drunk and her friends were on the bus. However, I know for a fact that she was with him last night because her tweets make it very clear.
1) How do I proceed with this relationship? Should I continue the FWB arrangement and ignore him?
2) Is there anyway to mess up his game? Or do I let him mess it up himself without me doing anything on my part?