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Thread: Harem / Text Advice

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    Default Harem / Text Advice

    Just had this interaction, my first experience with the like. I'm trying to build up a soft harem (a tricky task indeed). Hadn't talked to her in a little bit (after an incident of her being goofy), girl informed me she is now seeing someone (likely due to the fact that she was commonly pushing for more of a relationship and me not budging). How did I do (keep in mind I know the dynamics of harems are that some will drop off, sh!t happens)?

    Me: "I can't be out too late, I'm going to xxx to get a drink. Come grab one with me."

    Her: "So I've been trying to not do this...Cause we have a lot of fun...but I'm trying to not be a jerk. I'm sort of seeing this guy...Only been since after the last time we hung out...it's not serious or exclusive but I'd feel weird getting a drink with you right now. Though I do want to"

    Me: "Thanks for the update wolf blitzer, I was just trying to grab a drink"

    Her: "I know! Which is why I wasn't gonna say something. You and I don't care but the guy is totally sensitive"

    Me: "Sounds like fun, if you change you mind, I will hit up xxx bar too"

    Her: "Haha k have a good time if don't see you"

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    Default Re: Harem / Text Advice

    Well handled. Try again every now and then. She'll probably decline the next few times; when she does, subtly(!) point out how much of a drag this guy sounds like, maybe tell her that you had a great time last time but it would've been better with her there, etc. You want to get her frustrated with her sensitive, overprotective AFC, but without seeming like a sensitive, overprotective AFC.

    After 2-3 attempts, if she's still declining, point out that neither of you need to tell him and he doesn't need to know. She'll probably still decline, but the seed will be planted. You can cash in on that shit later on.
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    Default Re: Harem / Text Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by HunterKiller View Post
    Well handled. Try again every now and then. She'll probably decline the next few times; when she does, subtly(!) point out how much of a drag this guy sounds like, maybe tell her that you had a great time last time but it would've been better with her there, etc. You want to get her frustrated with her sensitive, overprotective AFC, but without seeming like a sensitive, overprotective AFC.

    After 2-3 attempts, if she's still declining, point out that neither of you need to tell him and he doesn't need to know. She'll probably still decline, but the seed will be planted. You can cash in on that sh1t later on.
    He shouldn't try to put the guy down it'll make her more attracted to him and it'll seem as if he's jealous which will really fuel the fire. But this really works cause I tried it before to make sure ( got it from this site). You need to build him up as the ultimate man. Once you do that, she'll keep that in her mind and every time he messes up, he'll be destroying himself because he won't be living up to the expectations you set for him( you made him seem to be like the ultimate guy to the girl). I'm too lazy right now but I'll find the examples I used on the girl I recently messed around with even though she has a bf that she " really likes him and won't cheat on him" ( I took care of that quickly)
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    Default Re: Harem / Text Advice

    What's up with the title? What do Harems have to do with any of this
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    Default Re: Harem / Text Advice

    marvillo- Oh that's genius. I've gotta try that next time I'm gaming a girl with a boyfriend. (Which is often enough XD)
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    Default Re: Harem / Text Advice

    Yeah it's basically you putting him on a pedestal and when he doesn't meet it she'll be thinking like "wtf he's not all that and then some"
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    Default Re: Harem / Text Advice

    He's referring to BF Destroyer. It's a technique that's been around for around a year. I think Red Baron thought it up, but I may be wrong. Anyway, there are a few threads on it, look it up.
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