So here's the short story.
I met this girl a long time ago, it was actually in middle school, so a lot of years have passed since and we both changed a lot. Lately she's been through a heavy break-up with her boyfriend, and she's kind of obsessed with him, but wants to move on as well. ( she's got a lot of unresolved issues )
So we ran into each other at a party where I work regularly, and we talked, and actually started texting a LOT. Since I had no clue about how to K-Close or even F-Close her, I was DANGEROUSLY close to the friend-zone, If I'm not already in it. Anyway, she stopped by my place Thursday, while I was there with a mate of mine, who is a PUA in his own AFC way, I don't know, but he's a natural.
Anyway, she was kind of into him and me at the same time, but I managed to get my mate out of her system, and she showed A LOT of IOI's when she was over, but in my messed up AFC ways of talking to her, I didn't actually built any rapport, just a lot of comfort, which is why I'm close, or stuck in the FZ.
Back to the problem, she left her scarf over at my place ( I don't consider that an IOI or IOD, but I overthink a lot of stuff I should disregard ) and she's coming to pick it up in about an hour from posting this, and she already texted me ahead with the following
"Don't get startled, I look like a wreck"
She tries to get my attention and wants me to ask her whats up, and I completely ignored that.
I'm planning on opening on her with the following
"Wow, I was expecting a mess, but this is completely different"
And I have no clue if it's the right thing to say or whatever, but as I said before, I overthink way to much.
So anything you guys got for me on this?