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Thread: Need some advice with a cute girl.

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    Default Need some advice with a cute girl.

    So here's the short story.

    I met this girl a long time ago, it was actually in middle school, so a lot of years have passed since and we both changed a lot. Lately she's been through a heavy break-up with her boyfriend, and she's kind of obsessed with him, but wants to move on as well. ( she's got a lot of unresolved issues )

    So we ran into each other at a party where I work regularly, and we talked, and actually started texting a LOT. Since I had no clue about how to K-Close or even F-Close her, I was DANGEROUSLY close to the friend-zone, If I'm not already in it. Anyway, she stopped by my place Thursday, while I was there with a mate of mine, who is a PUA in his own AFC way, I don't know, but he's a natural.

    Anyway, she was kind of into him and me at the same time, but I managed to get my mate out of her system, and she showed A LOT of IOI's when she was over, but in my messed up AFC ways of talking to her, I didn't actually built any rapport, just a lot of comfort, which is why I'm close, or stuck in the FZ.

    Back to the problem, she left her scarf over at my place ( I don't consider that an IOI or IOD, but I overthink a lot of stuff I should disregard ) and she's coming to pick it up in about an hour from posting this, and she already texted me ahead with the following

    "Don't get startled, I look like a wreck"
    She tries to get my attention and wants me to ask her whats up, and I completely ignored that.

    I'm planning on opening on her with the following

    "Wow, I was expecting a mess, but this is completely different"

    And I have no clue if it's the right thing to say or whatever, but as I said before, I overthink way to much.

    So anything you guys got for me on this?

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    Default Re: Need some advice with a cute girl.

    I'd tell her "Thanks for the warning... but dang you're right! I can't believe you went out in public like this!!"

    Then smile, wink & give her a playful elbow nudge.

    Seriously... not many guys would be willing to bust on her playfully like that. But the ones who WOULD, are the ones she's going to find more attractive because it expresses confidence & humor.

    It sends a subconscious message that you're used to dealing with attractive women, so you're not afftected.



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    Default Re: Need some advice with a cute girl.

    Thanks! I already thought about this approach, but I still had to check with others. I'll report about this situation later.


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