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    Ikben is offline PUA in Training
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    Hey,

    Wanna ask a girl out she joked previously that she's always thinking about me. Now in asking her I want to add a remark about that in the text I send.

    The text would be something like: Hey pervert I have to be in .... on ... wanna grab some dinner there's a very good .... restaurant. This way we can talk about your obsession because (???you and I both know???) it can't continue this way

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    Default Re: Casual ask out or not

    That probably won't achieve the results you're hoping for.

    You'd be better off razzing her & asking her to explain why she keeps thinking about you.... Make it fun & playful though.

    Like, "So... since you keep thinking about me, I'm gonna give you the opportunity to sell me on the idea of us going out. "

    or

    "I should probably be a bit frightened about your obsessive/stalker-ish tendencies.. but I'm strangely OK with it. Meet me at xxxx on xxx date/time. "


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    Default Re: Casual ask out or not

    That idea is money!! Thx man

    Internet crashed but I wanted to also add that I've waited way to long for asking her out so I wanted to let her go because I got the feeling the momentum was gone. Until she made the thinking about me everyday joke and while I was talking on the phone with a friend who begged me to cook my speciality she must have overheard some of the conversation and when I hung up she said jokingly in group (me and other girl) that they should come over to my place and eat.

    I took that as a subttle hint

    Don't know if I should however because I waited so long...

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    Default Re: Casual ask out or not

    Hey,

    Should I add a more specific time and place to the first idea? Like: "I was thiking ... / Going to .... might persuade me "


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